I have an ex friend. We got super close and then "something" happened. Long story short, we like silently hate each other. We don't speak. We don't say hi. We don't make eye contact. NOTHING. Not gonna lie, I pretty much hate her. I've never hated someone like this before. Anyway, the thing is, we have the SAME friend group. Like all my friends are her friends. They aren't too sure of what happened, so it's just super awkward. Especially with her best friend, who was also my best friend. We were like all super close, but ow that this happened, she's like bff with her, and i'm just there, which I don't really care, because I was starting to strongly dislike her too. BUT it's just so awkward, when she comes over and they're talking to her and I'm just sittting there. Or even worse, in this one class, we do experiments every day and they always go to work together and I just stay at my desk while everyone is in a group. I hate it. It's so awkward, and it just upsets me so much. Please tell me what I can do to help this issue? It keeps bringing me down
What you need to do is talk to your "ex friend" one on one in a place where you two are alone. You two need to discuss the issue at hand and you need to forgive each other for whatever happened and move on. It's not worth getting all worked up over and it's not worth the stress. Don't play the blame game or anything like that, just be totally nice and say "You know, it's been bothering me that we have all this tension between us and it's making things awkward between all of our friends as well..." and just say that you're ready to move on from it and that you just want things to go back to the way they were. All you can do is try and if your friend is still bitter about it then that's her problem. If she doesn't want to forgive and forget then there isn't anything you can do about it, you tried and that's all that matters.
I was in a situation just like that a few weeks ago. Same friend circle and everything. It got to the point when I just had to talk to her. We had to work it out together. We decided that even though we aren't the best of friends anymore we shouldn't act like we completely hate the other person. We have to get along, otherwise it was just causing a bunch of unnecessary drama that neither of us want.
i had that happen to me to and i just started to feel completly alone... i had a couple friends that she dident like that we dident have in commen so i stuck to hanging out with them... maybe the best thing is to try to make new friends... cause if they were your real friends theyd see how akward and uncomterble you are and theyd try more to talk to you and make you feel included...
do not deal with her leave her alone if you do not like her, lol
keep that best friend out of your problem.