Why does it seem to be easier just to get laid then to go on an actual date. Is it really that little of commitment to get laid then to go on a date WTF.
Sadly, that is true. Peolpe use sex for all the wrong reasons. Dating someone first is so much more difficult because you feel like you have to give yourself to them and be open. It sholud be the other way around. What happened to the days when a guy would ask out a girl and date for a long time before sex. Instead of getting to know someone, dating, and then sharing an intimate encounter, it seems like the only reason people go out anymore is just to get "laid".
Pretty lame, I am tired of getting laid, but it is really hard and seems absurd to say no.
I want JUST a Date, nothing more. Pretty lame I know but I would like to develop a relationship, I have only had one girlfriend in my life, I am pretty cautious about getting hurt. Am I doomed to just keep my head in books for school and working all the time for the remainder of my life?
you're not doomed to a life of no women. just because you have only had one girlfriend doenst mean anything, it just says that you know what you want. and dont settle for a girl who isnt who you want to spend your life with. (because ultimately, dating is for finding your spouse) hope this helps:)