dad going crazy

my dad found out I was gay and he hates it he doesnt want me to talk to her ever again but I dont give a crap about what he says… I love her to death and he cant take her away from because I might just kill myself… he doesnt know how much I love her and he forced me to tell him who I was going out with… he was like why cant you b normal like the other kids… hes not going to let me c her again probably because he says he doesnt want a gay daughter… what DO I DO?

Answer #1

You brush off this ‘abuse’ rather easily, like you don’t care about it, that strikes me as odd. If you report him then he will most likely back off or he will risk further punishment and you will be able to have what you want. There would be ways to see/contact your girlfriend regardless of what he says. You have the internet for a start so get a webcam. You surely aren’t under his ‘supervision 24/7 so just meet up with her away from him.

Answer #2

I know but I still love my dad but he just doesnt understand… I am who I am he cant change that and its not fair he wants to keep me away from my girlfriend just because he thinks its not right

Answer #3

I know but I still love my dad but he just doesnt understand… I am who I am he cant change that and its not fair he wants to keep me away from my girlfriend just because he thinks its not right

Answer #4

I know but I still love my dad but he just doesnt understand… I am who I am he cant change that and its not fair he wants to keep me away from my girlfriend just because he thinks its not right

Answer #5

I know but I still love my dad but he just doesnt understand… I am who I am he cant change that and its not fair he wants to keep me away from my girlfriend just because he thinks its not right

Answer #6

You cant change who you are and who you love. He will need time to get used to it. Whether he will accept it or not you can’t be sure. It is a shock to a parent to find out their child is gay. Some more so than others. Don’t p*ss him off too much by rebelling or he will be even worse about it. You need to sit down with him and calmly explain that this is who you are and nothing he says or does will change it. Tell him that forcing you to conform to the ‘norm’ of being straight will only make you miserable, and if he loves you then he needs to value what makes you happy.

Answer #7

You sound young and a little immature.

*love her to death and he cant take her away from because I might just kill myself

That’ll definitely solve your problems.

If your father/mother/anyone doesn’t agree with what you believe in, learn the “count to 10” trick and wait until you turn 18. Once you hit that age you’re on your own and no one can tell you what to do, say, think or believe in.

Answer #8

If your dad really abuses you then you need to report it as this is a crime.

Answer #9

but I do love her and my dad abuses me and she is the only one I got that makes me feel like im worth something and plus its kinda hard to type on a psp… I cant type so good on this thing

Answer #10

yeah I was thinking of like going to the movies with her but tell him im going with my friend christian… my dad doesnt frequently abuse me but I just kinda wanted to throw that out there lol

Answer #11

“my dad doesnt frequently abuse me but I just kinda wanted to throw that out there lol”

HOW is that in any way funny?

I have come to the conclusion that is isn’t even true and you made it up to add drama to the situation. Don’t joke about things like that. Look up the meaning of the word ‘abuse’ and don’t use it if it’s not needed. There are real abuse victims who could take offense to your attitude

Answer #12

This is pathetic. Made me laugh though so thanks…

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