How can I get this creepy dude to leave me alone without being mean?

I’m a freshman in high school and he’s a junior and he moved here about a few weeks ago and he’s bisexual and now has a gf but he keeps following me to my classes and saying “i love you!” and i’m getting creeped out and then he’s like, “do i get a hug?” and then i give him one and he keeps putting his arms around my waist and i don’t wanna be mean so i’m not saying anything and apparently he’s creeping out a LOT of girls…But especially me.

Answer #1

Ignore him & slowly drift away.

Answer #2

If a lot of girls are having the same problem with this one guy, I would say someone should say something to him. Simply tell him to “Stop, I don’t love you”.

Answer #3

i had a guy like that at my school. He was red headed and obsessed with death. A compulsive liar and he filed his nail to a point. He would constantly tell my best friend he was in love with her and would hug and flirt with a bunch of girls. I labeled him as a sociopath and tried to ignore him. It was difficult. The only way i got him to leave me and my friends alone was by being straight forward and not thinking twice about his feelings.. do i would suggest you just be 100% honest and straight forward with him

Answer #4

Be nice about it., And ask him to stop. let him know that it’s not cool & that you don’t get down like that. If he persists to follow you to classes or to make you uncomfortable. That’s when you put your foot down or up his !!!. But all in all-enough is enough…

Answer #5

Seriously just be frank with him, a lot of people dont pick up hints so you need to just tell him straight up to stop and that it makes you uncomfortable.

Answer #6

Maybe he does love you, in his own, creepy, following, lovingly, hug able, way… Better get your mace..

Answer #7

been there done tht. if ur desperate, say ur datn sum1 from another scool and they would get mad if they found out sum1 was huggn u like tht.

OR

say dude get out of ma bubble!

Answer #8

haha

Answer #9

a guy used to do that to me 2…i would just say watever and i’d walk away laughing…eventually he left me alone but everyone’s different…what worked for me might not work for u…i’d say u probably need to tell him to back off if he’s making you uncomfortable i hope this helps

Answer #10

That description, even gives me the chills. Talk about children of the corn…

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