Would you be creeped out if a 20 year old was sending you these texts when you were 13?

That is not ok. A 20 year old should NOT be talking to you in that manner. I advise you to tell your parents or another responsible adult as soon as possible. It’s good that you have realised that there is somethiing wrong with it.

Is this someone here on FunAdvice? If it is, we need to know about it.

No it isn’t

That is totally inappropriate and in my opinion downright creepy. You need to speak to your parents about him and try cutting off all communicaion with him. If needed go to the police.

It’s all sorted out now, thanks :)

Definitely inappropriate. Tell your parents about this. :) how did he even get your number?

You can file a complaint with whatever police department is in your area, to avoid future problems. This way if something happens the police will know about it and after a certain extent a restraining order can be obtained considering your age and his age. remember that sexting with him is illegal and will result in consequences for both him and you. Save the messages to provide proof if there ever is a need to.

when i was 15 i had a 21yo frnd named greg…it wasnt that big a deal to me cuz it was a casual frndship and i thought he was one of the nicest ppl i had known at the time…he even tried to protect me 4m somebody that was a threat to me at that time…but with a 13yo and a 20yo…ehh he cud easily have bad intentions esp with the whole “liking ur bum” thing…just saying even tho i already saw that its been resolved …………

We are just friends, I’ve just told him to stop saying stuff like he is, he does it to everyone apparently.

You can tell him to leave you alone. Do you know him? Did you guys have something going on now, or in the past? If you don’t even know him then yes it is very wrong and all, best thing to do is to tell an adult, as long as your not i participation with him.

Yeah, I know him, we’ve known each other for a while but apparently, he does it to everyone. I’ve told him that I’m not interested in him and to stop talking to me.

Yeah, sounds familiar, best thing to do if he does not leave you alone is repport him, It is wrong just because your underage and he is pushing it you know.

yes. happens to me on myspace

paedophile: a person who is sexually attracted to children..

ppl like that make me sick

You’re 13? Well, first of all its super innapropiate for him to be texting you all of these things, and well in general flirting and talking to you. He would be well known to adults as a pervert. I think you need to stop responding to his text messages, I mean really? Stop replying to him, If you reply to him then hes going to think you like the attention. Which, Maybe you do. But you shouldnt like the attention from a 20 year old, Thats disgusting. He needs to grow up, And so do you. You really need to delete his number. And, If he’s refusing to leave you alone then you need to tell your parents, or the cops. Because you don’t wanna take this further than it has to.

hes a weirdo, if i was you id change my number.. and have nothing else to do with him

1.) delete his # out of your fone. 2.) if he doesnt leave you alone get a new number 3.) hope it helped

first,tell an adult.second,if you like him to then i see nothing wrong with an older person liking a younger person just as long as it doesn’t get to serious.im 13 and i know an 18 year old boy who likes me and we just flirt.good luck! ; )

yeaaaaaaaaa. thats kind of creepy, it kind of depends on if u know this person and what kind of texts they send you.

pedo!! reallllly dodgy steer clear!!!

just tell him leave me alone & how he get yur # in the 1st place ?? i mean 20 is kinda old.. i mean it is old !! yuu should just no=ever text backk

i mean ** never text him back!!

Uhh yeah. First if you dont know the dude and he’s 20 im sorry girl but thats kinda bad.

you should be very creeped out. change your number!

good good hope u iz ok now tho does ppl iz freaky

oh my gosh that is NOT okay. i am 20 and my friends are too. if they were texting a thirteen year old that i would be greatly disturbed. That is so wrong, if this continues you need to tell someone because the same thing happened to my sister except she was 15 and he was 25 but anyways it started like that but he quickly got worse. Tell someone please be careful. Hes obviously thinking of you in an inappropiate way and thats evidence of being a petifile. Go to your parents, a guidance counselor, someone you can trust.

yess. omg that so happened to me when i was younger. i put that guy behind bars, well technically I didnt, but my parents did.

i was talkin’ to this guy that was 21 a while ago, and i started to LIKE him, and he knew i did. all of a sudden he started gettin creepy on me. he started sayin and doin things he had never done before. and my parents didnt know about him. and after he said and did somethings i got scared and ran to my parents for help. i regret not telling them about him at all, because im sure that none of this would have happened. i made a stupid choice of keeping the things he said to me that were inappropriate to myself. i didnt notice red flags like other people might have. i regret keeping it to myself.

omg thats soo bad!! it happened to me b4 so I guess u should just block him on ya phone and forget about it !!.

Ignore him and maybe change your number