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Why would a 19 yr old male hit on 13 and 14 yr old females ?

There is a guy who is 19 years old and is in my youth group at my church he first hitted on me and when I rejected him he started hitting on 2 other girls younger than I am does this make him a prediator

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Answer #1

This exact same thing happened in my youth group. He started with me then my best friend then our other friend. 2 of us are 14 and the other is like 12. But hes 19. He stopped though. Just ignore hym and give hym really mean looks. If he doesnt stop then tell your youth director. and just stay away from hym.

Answer #2

Yes, he is a predator. The fact that he is hitting on everyone means he doesn’t really like them he just wants to find some easy prey. He isn’t hitting on girls closer to his age bacause they are harder to get. That is why he went younger after you said no.

Answer #3

No. He’s only 5 year older than them right? I went out with a 19 year old when I was 14-15 and it just depends on the maturity of the females getting hit on. Hitting on is also completely different than full on intercourse. theres a big difference! And It also depends on weather or not the girls like it. If they find it annoying or rude than thats harrasmet no matter what age you are. If they would like him to stop just tell him to, but you can’t call the police or anything and even if you did that’d just be wrong adn jumping the gun.

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