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Crazy Love: Proposal

So crazy because we finally sit and have a heart to heart… And I ask, what are we doing?… He looks confused and asks what am I talking about… I tell him that Im not just some random chick that you’re having sex with and I refuse to be treated as such… I ask why is that he refuses to pull out, and all he couldnt do anything but break down in tears… He claims to love me and want to be a family with me… He says he was waiting on the right time, but he feels that he’s about to lose me, and goes into the room and comes out with a box which holds a brand new ring… He asks me to marry him again, but I couldnt say yes… Im too scared… I dont want to get hurt again… What do you think

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Answer #1

Dear allure, He refuses to pull out? Are you referring to sex?? If you are and are not using protection you are setting yourselves up for more then a confussing heart to heart talk? This relationships is heading down the wrong path already here…You do not have unprotected sex, he refuses (big, big red flag) he asked to marry him AGAIN??? You refused prior? New ring…as apposed to old ring??? You are afraid of being hurt again (trust issues you need to resolve) so for the time being try being mature; use protection and put the marriage on the back burner…either of you are ready for marriage and certainly not for children. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

It sounds to me like you guys have some trust and faith issues to work out. To get married is a partnership not just love. You HAVE to trust and communicate with your partner at all times. If he does not know what is going on in your head and you don’t know what’s going on in his head then I highly doubt it will work out.

Studies show that most people, once they get married they hardly change so to make this decision you are accepting him for the man he is at the moment and you would not change him for anything.

My advice is to have a heart to heart talk spilling all of the beans and holding nothing back that will hurt each other’s feelings. From pain comes a more intelligent and mature being.

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