How do I know that my boyfriends proposal was real?

I am 15 and my boyfriend is 13 but is very mature for his age, we have been talking about our future and we really love eachother, he asked me to marry him, it wasnt a massive proposal because we are young and have no money for a ring or anything fancy like that, but he asked me and I said yes. He knows how much growing up to marry him means to me because he knows I am wating till marriage to have sex. Please help me, I truly love him and I am extatic that he has asked me, but I’m not sure if it means anything to him, or if he only asked me because we had been talking about it.

Answer #1

people dont seem to understand that WE ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED AT 13 AND 15!!! he has ASKED me to marry him when we are older, obv we are not going to go and have some cheesy marriage while we are too young, this is advice I need on the PROPOSAL aspect of it all, NOT the whole getting married aspect.

Answer #2

hes 13 and as much as you might hate to hear it hes still a kid, I doubt hes as mature as you say he is, and hes going through puberty so his hormones will be going crazy its also very possible that he only asked you to marry him so he can have sex with you that and your kids, kids dont need to get married just stay in a relationship, take things slow, be with each other for a few years, then LIVE with each other for a few years so you can see if the two of you actually can last, and THEN get married

Answer #3

ok if you get married when you are 13 or 15 you are retarded it will ruin your life for sure…just keep dating till you are like 25 then do it because its the same thing but with less commitment

Answer #4

As mature as he may be for 13, I dont think he knows what he is saying. He may truely believe at this moment that he wants to marry you but thats a big commitment. I’m in my twenties and I still dont think Im ready. If its really meant to be then wait to get engaged for a few years. He should be able to buy you a ring and support you before asking for your hand in marriage,

Answer #5

Ok im in about the same thing as you sept my boyfriend is 17 and im 16. he got me ring we just dont know how we are going to do this. cause weddings seems expensive and hard But anywho im not sure what to tell you I mean come on..hes 13 he probably dosnt even know what love is yet I think you should just keep dating and hold it off and see how he feel in a few years about it when hes more grown up and can accually take care of you

Answer #6

ok :’( ty

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