How do I cope with grandmother's death?

its always gonna be hard, but when i lost my grandma a year ago, this story kind of helped me, and my friend when he lost his grandpa.

The dragonfly

Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lilly pads, there lived a little water beetle in a community of water beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life on the pond with few disterbances and interruptions. Once in awhile , sadness would come to the community when one of their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lilly pad and would never be seen again. They knew when this happend, their friend was dead, gone forever. Then one day, one little water beetle felt an irrestistible urge to climb up the stem. However, he was determind that he would not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what he had found at the top. When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the surface of the lilly pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broading wings and a slender body designed for flying. So fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never know existed. Then he remebered his beetle friends and how they were thinking by now that he was dead. He wante to go back to tell them, and explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been before. His life had been fufilled rather then ended. but, his new body would not go down into the water. He could not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he understood that their time would come, when they too, would know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off into his joyous new life!

have a coke and smile seriously people die get over it. if your not going to feel anything for the ten people who died while i typed this then you shouldn’t feel any now. just because you know a person doesn’t mean you should care fore for them more than any other person’s death.

Oh! “Abbey Roze,” I just got it, lol - duh! {:^P

it is going to be hard hun, a lot of people loose their grandparents. i lost mine at 10, for me it was tramatizing due to the fact i had been taken earlier in the year and put into foster care. best way to do it is talk to your family about the good times you had, even spill the tears if you need to, holding your feelings inside is hard