How do you know if you're gay?

well.. to start with… cut out all the labels.. they don’t help anyone. don’t limit yourself to one sex or the other. connect with people and date people you are attracted to. I don’t think it really matters what genetalia someone has when it comes to love. and on another note, people make fun of others when they are uncomfortable with something in themselves… so take comfort in that (if they call you fat or gay, they are insecure with their own body or sexual preferences).

meganhead has some pretty good advice, dont stress on labels (yeah I know it’s unsettling to be in that phase where you dont quite know) but you’re still young and discovering stuff… dreams may mean you’re gay, but on the other hand they may not mean much… it could just be that you feel insecure around guys and women are safer… or it could be your subconscious alerting you to your true feelings… if you’re attracted to women then you’re attracted to women… I mean maybe you are gay, but no one can answer that for you…

you just know im bisexual
trust me you just know

http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_u_know_are_you_a_lesbian_or - the antichrist has some pretty good advice…