Child babysitting

My room mate constantly has her nine year old girl watching her 11 month old baby. Feeding, changing diapers, ect. Though the mom is at home, these chores remain the daughters. Am I over reacting, or is there a law against this.

Answer #1

I know you think the child has no child hood by doing the adult chores, but that is the way some mothers are…my daughter has my grand daughter picking up her clothes, putting away her own clothes and anything left laying around gets thrown out..they are neat freaks so I come over every weekend and make sure she has some childhood time like hide and seek, board games, just what ever she wants to do…well at least there will be a bond between both kids even if there is not one for the mother.

Answer #2

You are not over acting,I too have one of these neighbors. I apporached the situation by first expressing what I felt to the mother,Second I let the child come to my house as much as possible to kind of relieve her duties around her house.But I also let her know that this is illegal and its called neglect. Its where the parent neglects to care for there own baby so they pawn it off on someone else. This can be approached by a simple call to cps.

Answer #3

Laurensunshine; the mom is home wiht her all the time, so she is not leaving her in the care of her child alone. just making her do all the dirty work

Answer #4

As long as the mother is there to supervise, there’s nothing she’s doing wrong legally…morally, however, that’s a lot of responsibility for a nine year old.

Answer #5

I agree, but the mother feels as though the child doesn’t have enough responsability; go figure…

Answer #6

yes there is, you have to be 14 to bab sit, you shluld also call social services, this is really serious! x

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