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can you help me with some advice im only 14 and pregnant but scared to tell my mother because shes going to put me out what should I do
To be honest, life is hard enough and to think about a child bearing a child is a bit more difficult. The best thing to do is to have an adult that you trust and can confide in sit in with you when you break the devastating news to your mom.Although you may be thinking the worst will happen, it may turn out to be okay. She's your mother and she only wants whats best for you and I believe she'll help you before throwing you out. So don't always think negatively because you never know what you're facing until you face it.
Okay, thats some really, really bad advice from jacobs1. Your mother is going to find out one way or another - if she doesn't notice the morning sickness or strange eating habits, she will notice the bump on your stomach eventually. What is done is done... but the sooner you tell your mother, the better off for you it will be and the more time you have to prepare. Your mother may be very angry at first, but she'll calm down after and help you through this.
You should've known that this would happen. You're 14 and not ready for the responsibility of sex. Your mind AND body isn't ready at that age. But as for your Mom, if she would really throw you out, then what kind of mother is she? She should(no matter how mad she is) be there for you. But . . . If she does throw you out, just go to a friends house and there are places you can go, like for run aways and the people there can also help you.
im the same age as u and if u want a really honest advice ill tell u...listen TELL HER EVERYTHING ,FACE TO FACE,I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD AND SHE LL BE PISSED BUT ITS NOT GOOD TO KEEP THAT SECRET...tell her !maybe she is going to help u,she is your mother and she deserved it u shouldnt keep it secretly !!!1something can go wrong and there will be nobody to help u...remember MOTHER IS YOUR BEST FRIEND...
she isn't going to throw you out. It's true that she'll be mad at first, I would too if I was her, but at the end she'll have no other option but accept it as a fact, and help you as much as possible, you'll def. need her support!!! And PRAY!!! God loves you, He just waits for you to open your heart to Him, He'll find the best sollution cause He knows what's best for u! take care
just be like mama. im pregnant, start cryin and beggin say u so sorry, u got caught up, be like mama dont be mad at me im sorryyy.. but if its her first grand child shell be happy in the end but pissed when u tell her
You have to tell your mom. The sooner you have your support system together the better. Also the sooner you get to the doctor and get on prenatal vitamins the better too. Please let us know how it works out.
she wont kick you out shes your mother she loves you
jsut write it in a letter and run...sorry rubish advice but its what I'd do
All I can say is just sit down and be straight up with her. The rest is in Gods hands.
she'll probably b mad when u 1st tell her, but she loves u and will help u thre it.
SHE WONT KICK U OUT!!! JUST PRAY AND PRY AND PRAY THEN U TELL HER!
