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Can anybody help me ? I have a violent cousin?

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I have a cousin around the same age who has been living with me ever since my uncle her papa passed away.I think since we were 9.She is a very normal girl.Smart at class very talented in singing and piano and indeed prettier than me and for some reason always hangs around rich guys.I dont even wanna ask what the hell she does.

But she has so much rage in her.When she's angry she takes up anything glass objects forks and smashes it on my face and and hands.She throws stuff to me that are very hard.And my parents love her more than me I think because they never seem to be there to protect me or even defend me.I feel so sad because I'm the only one who can make her be calm but she has to unleash her rage on me.

In all my life I never lifted a hand against her except for one moment she tried to kill herself I had to punch her and knock her unconcious or she wouldn't quit trying to stab herself.I am a martial artist I wouldn't knock her fatality.Just enough to make her pass out.

My parents are all very understanding but I'm not showing them the real wounds I have to bear I mean years since we were little...her trying to drown me burn me not to mention nail me when we were down in my dad's garage...I don't wanna risk her being sent away where she can do much damage no doubt to other people.She's a walking time bomb and sometimes I hold my breath when we are in public...she pulls a stunt like that to other people nobody can protect her..But im tired of coming home limping from the hospital.It is rather like domsetic abuse but I think one that I willingly put up with.Hoping one day she'll realize I'm not gonna leave her even if she has to kill me.

I think she is suffering from intense trauma.My uncle didn't exactly die a normal death.And I probably don't know half of what she's going through.

She's rich now hooked up with some wealth no doubt...dumbass...but I check up on her once in awhile...I heard they've been fights lately and she keeps talking crazy on the phone lately...I don't want anybody to get hurt.

Do you think I should drag her and take her somewhere safe?...