Helping my cousin

My really close cousin shes 16 and her boyfriend is 18 and theyve been arguing for like a week now because her boyfriend said he wanted to join the army not like doing little things the acutally army like going to war yeah so they have a son that is almost 3 weeks and he wants to go still. I wanna try and help my cousin convience her boyfriend not to go. Do any of you guys have ways to convience him not to go instead of saying no I dont want you to go and stuff like that

Answer #1

At the end of the day you cant do anything he will do what he wants and he will think he has made the right decision I know you are trying to help but its out of your hands and he would see it as none of your business even though you obviously really care for your cousin

but on this one you have to take the back seat

xx

Answer #2

in a nutshell your cousin is scared,she loves her boyfriend and doesn’t want him to go because she herd all this bad stuff about the war. I want to go to war, and im only 15 (nearly) and my friend whose really close to me doesn’t want me to go either because she loves me,she doesn’t want to be left without me in her life. people only here the bad things about the war… it was really good opertunities… he’ll get money for your cousin and her baby, just tell her to support her boyfriend, because someone who wants to do something so much, they arn’t going to give up on it easily or not atleast without a very good reason not to go. tell themto have a good adult talk about it. and for them to consider the good things and the bad things.

Answer #3

Look on the good side he will send money to take care of the both of them. I have a child and I seriously been thinking about joining the army. Its not as bad as people make it to be. She should really support him he is only looking out for his kid and besides that is something he wants to do. No matter what you cant really stop a guy when it comes down to their life. He will stil be able to come home and be with them. They could go in together and the baby could stay on base with them or close to it. Sometimes you just have to make life decisions life this. The army could pay for college for him almost everything. Its not just about the money. The army could make this guy a better man and father. Do you want him to go work at mcdonalds ot the army?? Lol I pick the army

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