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My brothers are fighting over a girl

I have 5 real older brothers, currentyl its Ryan against Tatum. . they all are REALLY mad at each other and there mad at each other cause Ryan kissed Tatum’s girlfreind but BARLEY! and I swear Tatum HATES Ry now. and I dont know what to do I feel so in the middle. who side do I go on you see Bradley is on Ryans side, and Kyle and Trevor are on Tatums side. I know Ryan shouldnt have done what he did but there BROTHERS!! TO GUYS, WULD you BE MAD AT your BROTHER IF HE DID THIS? I feel torn between both. he didnt do anything THAT bad. who’s side do I go on what do I do? PLEASE IAM BEGGING you PLEASE HELP. I CANT LIVE WITH THEM LIKE THIS!

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Answer #1

WOW!! well first off… don’t take any sides, because since they are both you’re brothers, you don’t want to go aginst any of them. best thing to do is for you to calm the both of them down, and have them slowly try to talk to eachother, because just like you said, they’re family, and they live in the same house!! so sooner or later they’ll have to face one another. But, yeaaa… Ryan was wrong to have made that move on Tatum’s girlfriend, so have Ryan say sorry to Tatum, and of course clear things up with Tatum’s girlfriend and have him tell her that the whole thing was a stupid mistake, and it was wrong of him to make a move on his brother’s girlfriend. then last but not least have Tatum himself sort things out with his girlfriend. but over all… this situation will eventually blow over!! so dun’t you worry… in the mean time, be the peace maker =P

Good Luck!!

Answer #2

Ryan has said sorry to Tatum like 3,000 times. and Tatum has given him like 3,000 bloddy noses and Tatum just WILL NOT forgive him! and is beedting the crap out of Ryan. WHAT DO I DO. PLEASE HELP. IF THERE ARE GUYS WHO COULD HELP TO THANKS YOU. QUICK!

Answer #3

get on the side you feel is right… pretend they are total strangers, and pretend that you have to chose on what side you have to be on. dont let them being your brothers get in your way.

Answer #4

Well brothers will be brothers but they have to realize the saying for all of bros and guy friends. Which is of course, “Bros before hoes”. In more lament terms, it means that women will come and go but your bros or friends will stick around forever with you. It is not really your place to do anything except for them to work it out themselves, especially since you are the younger sister of them.

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