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I know this is really not a question. but im going through a hard time right now =[. my boyfriend is in jail for rape. his friends told me that it was a lie that he didnt rape the girl he was just walking her home. I kind off believe them but anyways what was he doing wit a girl and walkin her home in the first place? im really depressed right now and ever since I found out I been wanting to cry but something is keeping me away from crying. I told my parents but they are no help at all. I told them I was going to wait for him until he comes out and my parents just said "good now we dont have to worry about you messing with other guys for another 10 years" that made me feel worst. How many years does he has to stay in jail for a rape assault in new jersey. he is 17 years old idunno da girls age though I think she younger than 18 im not sure yet. but omg I miss him so much! thats my first love and I cant imagine my life without him speacially not seeing him for years! =[
From one of your previous questions about you boyfriend, I have to wonder about his attitudes towards girls. You were on your period, and he was trying to get in your pants, and you kept telling him no, but he wouldnt take no for an answer, so you just let him. That is total disrespect towards you, and you did nothing about it. From what Im getting, he is just using you.
They can do a DNA, and find out if in fact he had sex with her. Its his word against hers until theres evidence, but I dont think I would be so quick to dismiss what happened. What reason would this girl have to accuse him of raping her? Maybe your boyfriend is lying. If he did push himself on her, do you honestly think hes going to admit it? It'll all come out in court.
well my boyfriend just got locked up for second degree rape...it wasnt an actual rape tho. he was 18 and the girl was less than 15 and even tho she agreed to have sex they still charge it for rapecus she wasnt at the "appropriate" age to consent the sexual action or w.e. anyways...for that he's getting locked up for a 1yr and 6months. I dont know if your case would be the same tho. I plan on waiting for my boyfriend. he tries to call me anytime he can and I keep getting updated with his brother and as soon as he gets permanently transfered to a jail I'll have his address to keep writing him. I dont know how your relationship with your boyfriend is but if you guys really love each other and you think he's worth it...then wait.
Dear uczbabiigiirl, In all likely hood he was charge because his DNA was a match and she had identified him as her rapist. Ask yourself is this someone you want to be with? Why don't you know how long his sentence is? You obviously haven't been in contact with is family, you say you would wait for him but did you not speak of his situation with him. You didn't find any of this out till he was charged and sent away? I think in all reality you and he aren't very close and you are not crying because there is really isn't a strong connection. It's time to wake up and move on. I doubt you'll find many other girlfriends waiting for their boyfriends in this situation. Sue...good luck
ok look I seen all the other questions you put up he is trying to get pu**y and that's all, your are like his toy and only one, but yet he has 100 so how do you feel now being used not to be messed up or anything but just to tell you move on there is nothing you can do and that is fake love you won't know love until you are older trust me I was faked by it as well SORRY TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH
I would suggest constantly visiting him and talk it out with him on what the next relationship is going to lead to as of right now.. I would make sure you remember communication is the key, I know it is hard to communicate with someone who is incarserated[sp] lol. but anyways, good luck. :]
Your beautiful.You can do better...and it could be you one day...men who rape women generally dont stop there
run, run, run, there are lots of guys out there, don't settle for one in jail for rape.
just drop it if he raped a girl what do you think he is using you for
