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boyfriend moving in at 17

um hi. I am 16.. and I’ve been dating this guy for almost two years. We both use to live in Cape Girardeau Missouri.. but I just recently moved to St.Louis with my mom. I miss him, and he misses me. He is 17. We have been talking about this for a while and both think that it;s a good idea. My mom and step dad are both for it. The only rule is that he has to pay $250.00 a month (we already have a job set up for him) So the only problem is his mom. His mom isnt very nice to him.. and she cant stand my mom and would never allow him to move in with me or anyone.. Im pretty sure that she cant do anything about it. But does anyone know? or have any advice? I need to know quick.. because if we go pick him up.. its going to be next week.. and I know his mom will cause hell.. we arent going to tell her.. we’re just going to go get him. Thanks!

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Answer #1

Well if your parents are all for it then thats a good sign. But he isnt 18 yet, so if you say his mum is a bit of a drama queen, she may call the cops on you guys. I think its best you all sit down together and discuss it with her, and if she still doesnt agree maybe wait until he turns 18 and then she cannot do anything about it becos he is considered an adult.

Answer #2

first of all your parents could be counted as kidnappers, seeing as he is not 18 as soon as he is 18 then he can do what he wants, just as long as your parents are okay how long does he have till he is 18

Answer #3

Well then if you know for sure its ok then his mum cant really do anything but chuck a hissy fit, if your parents are up for a bit of drama until she accepts it then go for it! it sounds like the best thing if thats what your bf really wants.

Answer #4

then do it

Answer #5

no you guys.. it is all legal.. we called the police and asked

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