Boyfriend Drama: He's controlling and disrespectful, help?

look…I a lot older than you and I also lost my virginity to highschool sweetheart.He was controlling but I didnt look at it that way because I was young.I thought it was cute that he got upset when uda boys looked@me or if he walked by my class and saw that I had on a skirt, upset if I was gone to store wth mom and not waiting by phone for him.I gave him that control over me it became mental and emotional abuse.I cud have left him before it became physical but I endedup having a beautiful daughter wit him that he doesnt help raise.I am now 30yrs old and I am telling you pls don’t giv this boy control over u.I left my highschool relationship after I turned 18yrs old and my daughter was6mnths old.I never took him back after the 1st and last time he ever put hands on me.Remember once you let a boy thnk they have control they will try to go to the next leve of physical abuse

it started out gr8 but then mayb he started being afraid hed lose you..unfortunatly it lead 2 major issues with control.hes now being mentaly and emotionaly abusive.ie not letting you b with your frends,calling you pathetic,controling how you spend your time,delibritly flirting with uda girls,(dats sick)ect ect.its just gona get worse.has he ever hit you???because it look like this is just abuse gettn worse and worse your worth more than this.if sum1else told you dis story wudnt you tel dem 2get out?u deserve better than dis hell. so did he do it on perpose?no I tink he actualy loves u.but control is a desiese and you both need help..if you stay with him hel never get that help.your letting you both get sicker and sicker.do you love him enough2leave him?mayb itd b better 4 uboth?and he is abusive.realy abusive.period.there just NO gond enough exuse 4 that.I tink you shud get out while your stil sane,but if you WONT please at least find a good counciler for both of you and read a bk called woman who love too much by robin norwood.please b carefulxxx

Yeah, you should definately leave this guy. Your only 14, your nowhere near the age you should be when you find the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. If a guy treats you like that, no matter how much you love and care about him, and no matter how much it will hurt to see him flirt with other girls, because the abuse will only get worse. I have been in almost the same situation, and I left him, and your boyfriends probably being honest like ine was, because I’ve never gotten the chance to be with him again. but IT DOES GET BETTER. You’ll find someone who loves you just as much without the emotional abuse. Good Luck Babe :)

OK you need to tell him that you arent his lil pet. You are sick of him thinking he can control you and that you are obviously dedicated to him so he needs to stop worrying about it if you were gunna leave him you would have done it already.

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