what do i say to my boyfriend? we been dating for 1month and he want to have sex what do i say?

well you obviously dont want to cuz you’re asking people on the internet, but tell him that you need to take it slow and if he respects it, then you’re not wasting your time… good luck

Well, I agree with randm_emo_kid. One thing was that I also went through that. Seeing how I was the only one from 4 friends that was the only virgin made me feel out of place. They all spoke diff. that I was out of the circle. But everyone else thought that in order for me to be with someone, I would have to search for a really long time. Then, everyone looked up at me, saying that I was someone whom no one could be like for being this way. That guys would have to WORK for my virginity. So I said, if they really liked me, they’d wait. Then again I think that one month is so much too early, that it sounds like “2 days” compared to other relationships. The most I would do is make-out. Going slowly.Think of yourself not on what he wants. If he really does like you, he’d think more realistic and look our for the type of relationship you really want.

In my opinion 1 month isn’t long enough. But I’m not the one who’s making this decision. This whole decision is up to you and what you think is best and will make YOU happy not what will make your boyfriend happy. I would talk to your boyfriend about it and say you guys should wait and establish an emotional connection together. Having sex is an emotional thing to do. If I were you i would go slow do other things first maybe making out, hj’s, bj’s ect. You DO NOT want to make this relationship just based on physical intimacy but on emotional as well. He should respect your decision and if he doesn’t he is def. not the one who deserves your virginity. I hope this helps. :)

OH. Also if you decide to have sex i would HIGHLY HIGLY recommend using contraceptives (birth control, condoms, plan B ect.) :)

Talk to him be honest with him tell him that you dont want to have sex yet. Youshould have sex only when you are ready. ont just have sex because he wants to he will understand if he really love you if he doesnt then he isnt worth it and doesnt really love you.

My boyfriend and were dating only about a month after we first did it. Just make sure you really could see yourself with this guy for a long time and it’s worth it. Alright?

im a boy and i agree with randm emo kid and yes im a boy i ven do i want to have sex bad i want to wait too i dint kiss becuse i want to wait here i am no girl has ever kissed me ecept my mom

I don’t think you should have sex with him or anyone until you know in your heart that you are ready and that you won’t regret it. I have let a scant number of people get to my panties and even less under them. If you feel comfortable you could give him an og*m and he could give you one, but I wouldn’t personally even take it further than that and I am a little older than you are.