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Boyfriend-Breakup?

I think I might be too insecure to have a boyfriend right now. I see pictures with him with other girls and I feel bad about myself, and I just feel like I’m not good enough for him. Would a break up be a stupid thing to do because of those kind of things? or is it reasonable?

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I’m stunned, floored, completely blown away by the maturity of this question. That you have enough introspection to even ask it is something to be proud of.

Those who are not comfortable with themselves and confident with what they can offer are destined to be someone else’s appendage, not an equal partner and equal contributor in a relationship. You now the old cliche of “It’s not you, it’s me?” That line was born of people like yourself realizing they need to do a little bit of maintenance before they’re ready to be with someone. Why bother opening yourself to someone if all that’s in there is jealousy and insecurity.

So yes, it’s perfectly reasonable. And personally, if I were in your boyfriend’s position, I wouldn’t want you to stay stuck in a relationship that was making you feel miserable.

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