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How or Should I Breakup with my Boyfriend of 2 years??

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I love him very much, and he loves me a lot. He talks about us getting married, how I am the one and I DON’T feel the same way. That scares me… I feel like I would know by now at least.
I’ve been feeling this way for maybe a few months and I don’t want to hurt him, but I’m just not attracted to him anymore. I’ve had several crushes on other guys but of course NOT acted on any of them. I just can’t help but ignore the signs that our relationship is all but over on my end only. Am I being to rash just breaking up with him… and any tips to help him understand? I care about him so much.

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Answer #1

I’m also thinking that you need to be honest with him. You don’t want to hurt him and that’s completely understandable, but the more you let things go on, the deeper into this he will only get. And, well, it will hurt him more the longer you wait.

As for ideas? Be honest, but be kind. Let him know what you’ve said here. Use I statements (I think, I feel, I want, I know). When you’ve expressed yourself, let him know what you want. Be clear. It’s the best way to be.

Good luck.

Answer #2

you must finish the relationship sooner rarther than later…

you have to just be honest with him

sit down and tell him how you feel, say good bye and dont look back…

thats what id do anyway :)

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