What exactly does my boyfriend want from me?

He’s away right now visiting family and friends in another state.. we’ve hardly talked… when we do, it’s very short. I know he gets stressed out easily and he’s been busy out there.. but how can you be too busy to call your girlfriend and talk for 5 minutes? We don’t even talk that long. I feel like he wants to end things. I asked him tonight when I finally talked to him if he’s still okay with me and him and he said of course, and he’s just stressed because everybody keeps trying to hit him up… For some reason, I don’t believe him… but why would he want to stay with me? I don’t know what he wants from me.

Answer #1

He may be telling the truth. I have a best friend Janell and I love her to d3ath. She will always be my best friend. She tries to call me or talk to me on the computer and I dont get a chance. Mostly its because I feel like everything or everyone needs my attention. My kids, my hubby, my parents, my schoolwork, and some friends who live by me. (Janell lives far away) Times where everyone needs something seemingly all at once I can’t talk to her. Sometimes it lasts a few days and she will wonder where her Rach has gone. She’ll even ask me if I’m avoiding her. I don’t do it on purpose just as I’m sure your bf doesn’t do it on purpose. He probably has a lot of people back home who are demanding all his time. I’m sure everything will be fine when he comes back! And he’ll need a vacation from all who are trying to hit him up!

Rach

Answer #2

Wait till he gets back to ask that kind of question. There is no way for you to REALLY know anything, until you look into his face. And, for all you know, once he’s back and at ease, he could easily be the same guy that left…nothing wrong at all.

p

Answer #3

I’m with phrannie on this one. I understand the insecurities that happen when someone isnt keeping in contact but sometimes a lot of it is just what we come up with in our own heads. It’s a lot easier to be the person who has left (because you’re busy in a new place) than it is the person who is waiting. It sucks, but give him some time. He’ll be back. You can see what’s going on when he gets back.

Answer #4

Moved from General Knowledge to Love & Relationships.

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Answer #5

Yeah, it’s a habit. Thanks! :)

Answer #6

You’re thinking too much. The anxiety from being apart is putting all kinds of make believe situations in your head. Before he left did he gab on the phone a lot? If not, then nothing has changed. He is also busy with the people he is visiting so he has less time. Be patient and wait for him to come home. Try not to get yourself all worked up.

Answer #7

Why even jump to such conclusions, hell I hardly ever think of even calling when I’m away. Despite the fact nothing has actually changed, you are just guessing for no reason.

Answer #8

how the fudge should i know.

Answer #9

why even answer…?

Answer #10

SEX!

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