What if my bf likes me dressing casual, but I like dressing nice- like heels?

Dress how you like. Its your body. I don’t think its a big deal if hes casual and you dress a bit more fancier. Just do what makes you happy. :)

Maybe he’s jealous if other people look at you. Maybe he thinks he can’t match your style and wants you to adapt to his? Talk to him about his feelings. Just ask him why he doesm’t like this shirt or that dress. I’m sure you can get over this if you understand why he wants you to be the gray-mouse.

i can only say, sometimes……women must also meet the expectation for their men as well as the men meeting the expectation for their women…….

yes, dont matter guy or girl…..its your body you dress what ever you like but when you commit yourself into a relationship, it is almost like an invisible contract - that tells you what you can do or not do….. In a relationship its not only about one its about “us” as “one”.

you can work it out

dress however you feel like, what kind of dude tells his girl what to wear

he doesnt tell me how to dress.. he just likes me to be “comfortable”

uhm that’s just another way of saying, he tells me how to dress, but i dont want to admit it… he’s making you uncomfortable by doing what he’s doing, you’ve just said it… so why dont you just tell him that…

because he tells me to wear what i whatever i want.. but in my mind still feel weird

he loves the heels. no doubt. heels help define curves in the girls body and are just hot. maybe hes just trying to compliment you saying that u dont need to dress up nice to be pretty

he might just be trying to tell you that you dont need to “dress up” for him…the important thing is that you are happy with your appearance.

dose it realy matter wat he wears it wats under that counts stop being silly

I think it is just what attracts him just kinda switch back in forth or meet at a middle grounds.