Belly Ring??

Okay first it doesnt realy hurt. I thought it was going to but it didnt, and I am scarred to death of needles. Second my family isnt crazy religous but my mom did not want me to get mine done but I begged and would not leave her alone about it. I told her if she didnt take me I would get it done as soon as I turned 18. She ended up taking me and I got mine at 16. I guess what I am trying to say is if you want it that bad. It is better to tell them you are going to do it even if they say no. That way it is in the open and you dont have to hide it from them. They will probably be made at first but will eventually get over it and you want have to worry about the trust issues,

No responsible piercer will pierce you without PARENTAL consent. Your sister doesn’t have any say.

If you get the belly ring, and your parents said “not” to… they will most likely find out about it eventually anyway.

From that point on, the rest of your life will most likely change…but not for the better. Your parents will doubt most everything you tell them, and they may never trust you again. You will have built up “walls” between you and your parents as far as good communication goes.

You know that your parents are “firm” believers in “not” getting it right now. Do you really expect them to act real happy about it when they “do” find out ? There are bound to be “consequences”.

You have to decide for yourself if that is the type of future you want between you and your parents. To build up walls of distruct and poor communication… or to build up a bond of faith and trust with them.

The choice will come down to being your choice when the time comes. Nobody here is going to tell you what to do, of course.
I just hope that you are smart enough to choose wisely.

Good Luck !

:-)

well I know how you feel about crazy catholic family most of my relatives are catholic I think it would be best to not get it if they dont want you to I know I would get my butt kicked if my mom found out I was hiding something and since your dad is crazy religious then enough said my lil sis got her belly button pierced when she was 12 but only because my mom agreed to it just think about the consequences and about what your getting urself into and it hurts like a mother so I think you should take time to think about it it is your skin but if your dad saw it he probably will think that he cant trust you anymore and I will tell you from experience, its sux not to be trusted because there is so much you will miss on because your parents wont trust you to do anything

no, at least not right now at 14, your body is still growing so by the time your around 16 it will be half grown out and just dangle there it wotn look very attractive either when it does so and youll need to get it re-peirecd if you want one, its best to wait un till your around 16-18 after all theres no rush to get a hole in your flesh its also likly that you parents will see it if you get it done now especially if you wear tight tops of if they see you in your pjamas often and that and theres really no point in breaking there trust now because if they do see it its likly theyll demand you take it out, and youll have lost there trust so do wait a few more years and think it through more because when you decide to take it out later on, it leaves a scar and that scar is permanent