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Why do guys always think they can hurt a girl by calling her a B*tch, slut and everything else you can call a girl. Just now because I wouldnt let this guy get a video or pictures of me doing things too myself(sorry about that.) but I wouldnt. He still asked me after I told him I was raped by my cousin for 5 years. I mean I know im not a slut or whatever and this guy barly knows me and I barly know him. What do you think??
Some guys objectify women (slut, biitch, whhore) because they have learned from each other that this is a way to prove their masculinity to other guys. Have you ever noticed that if a guy stands up for a girl (physically fighting for her is acceptable, but if it is verbal, it 'is not') even if the girl is his girlfriend, he is called "whipped" or "fagg" or "pusssy" well that's because it is how society send us messages on how to be. We start absorbing this from a young age. It's a guy thing.
Especially when they ask you out or to do something sexual, some believe that you 'don't have the right to say no' and they may be hurt. But since showing emotion is a big NO in proving your masculinity, guys will adopt the 'who does the bittch think she is' attitude, to cover up what their feeling, esp. in front of their friends. hope this helps!
Well... you've embellished the truth a tad. So, to answer your question...
Why do guys always think they can hurt a girl by calling her a Btch, slut and everything else you can call a girl.*
They don't ALWAYS do that. You're generalizing. But it seems like some of the guys that YOU KNOW do. So, maybe you should be around a different type of guy.
Whoh there! Well, don't listen to that guy he's just being a perv, & if he did'nt understand "NO" means "NO!" Just ignore what he tells you to do...
that you shouldnt do it. and deff not talk to him at all after he was so rude and couldnt understand that!
I told him I was raped by my cousin for 5 years.
Did that happen?
not every guy does that... find someone that doesnt! :) x
yes
