I really needs to know I mean it brings no pleasure to them (the guys lol).and they always like to start off by wanting to finger you, is it like a test to see how tight your girl is? What? Please tell me if you know
no, its rarely a test
a guy wants to finger a girl usually because apart from oral, its something else to do before sex
guys do get horny from fingering girls, listening to them moan and trying to mke them orgasm
so its not like there doing it for nothing
We (guys) do that because one it's not as out there as just starting off giving head or fucking and the girl usually would think it's moving to fast. And two they want to get you horny so hopefully your up to go farther sexually
I think its just to turn you on..like prepare you for wats comiNG next...and if you get so horny, d way you moan can kinda turn him on too.