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Is my relationship falling apart?

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now. He is 17 and I am 16 and we have had some rough times but lately its different. He used to say corny sweet things to me, and throw his arms around me to give me hugs all the time but lately he seems like he is forcing himself to put up with me. We see each other everyday and he just doesn't seem to care anymore. He says he loves me. but he also says stuff like "we don't have anything to talk about anymore" and he doesn't want to cuddle or kiss or anything. He doesn't want to have sex as much as he used to because he says he feels like he isn't "good enough for me" and he just doesn't feel up to it, which is okay, i don't need sex but you know what I mean? He just doesn't seem into the relationship. We fight about EVERYTHING everyday for the past month and theres so much stress between us. We have big plans coming up. He's going back to work (construction-travel crew) and will be gone for 7 months, seeing him on weekends only and I think maybe not seeing each other will make us stronger. And he is buying a house when he is finished work (end of season) but I don't know what to do. What can I do to make this relationship stronger and last? I love him incredibly and can't stand not being with him but I'm afraid that seeing him will make things worse. And he doesnt want to talk about anything and he blows things way out of proportion when I try to talk to him. What should I do!?