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Annoying friend

I have a lot of friend drama. Heres another one can you help me. I have a friend who is always talking about people behind there backs. She is a great person and fun to talk to but I feel when she says those mean things I sould say it to then after I feel so horrible. What should I do?

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Answer #1

it is never good to talk about people.if she is a real friend then you would be able to tell her that you do not like when she talks about people and ask her to stop.if she dose not stop talking about people after you ask her to maybe she is not a real friend.

Answer #2

Did you say she’s a friend? Because she really doesn’t sound like one. How do you know that she’s not talking about you? And if you don’t agree with her then why would you say it? Just because she wants to be mean to people does not mean that you have to. Maybe if you just stand there and look at her she’ll get the hint (eventually) and stop being mean.

Try it, see what happens.

Answer #3

Don’t talk about people. If she starts talking about people in a rude manor then tell her. Tell her you don’t appreciate it especially when it causes you to do the same subconsciously. If all else fails and nothing works maybe you should slowly but surely drop her as a friend. I know this sucks but if you don’t like to be around this type of person then why be their friend?

Didn’t you say you are going to be a freshman? This is the last thing you need while starting high school. For some weird reason high school drama is worse than any other drama you could imagine.

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