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Am I Secretly Bi?

I’ve had a boyfriend for 2 years now, and he has recently asked me to marry him. We have a great life, nice house, nice car, nice career, amazing sex!! But whenever I’m not with him and I occasionaly get horny, I wonder how it would feel to do this with a woman. Like when I go to the gym, I dont feel anything watching other ladies change clothes. But when I am horny, I crave to have sex with a woman, not my boyfriend.

What should I do? Should I tell my fiance? Should I venture out…? I’m confused

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Answer #1

Sure, tell your fiance, he’ll understand. After all, he likes girls too! I have a feeling that you are just curious and want to try something new. If you have been eating peanut butter sandwiches your whole life, of course you are going to wonder what jelly tastes like. Hmm I think that was kind of a bad analogy, a little disturbing but nonetheless! Talk to your fiance and, since you are in a relationship, fantasize a little and see where your fantasies take you. I first realized I was bisexual after a dream I had when I kissed a girl. But, you never know until you are faced with the choice to try something. I’m not sure how it could happen but sometime in your life explore something with a girl who is understanding of you and supportive. I don’t know, if that is possible…

Answer #2

I think that my fiance might get offended if I ask him. I have jokingy talked to him about it, and he turned serious. Like he thought that I wasn’t interested in him anymore. He thought that it was wrong of me to try it with a woman. Like he thought that I lost interest in him. But that’s not true. I just want to try it with a woman. What should I ask him?

Answer #3

everybody in this world is at least bi-curious. its natural. just don’t act upon it, it could cause the loss of your soon-to-be husband

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