How can I look more attractive?

am I really as ugly as people say I am and is this why I cant have the girl I love because everytime I walked through my school it was eeewww there goes that ugly gay lil emo kid no one likes (no im not emo) and if so how can I look more attractive?

Answer #1

Sadly, our world is a world of perception. If you do not meet the ideal perceptions of the masses then you are subject to ridicule from them. People, as a rule, don’t like other people that are different. If the girl you like is different from you and you really want her attention then you will have to change because she won’t. If you don’t want to change (and it is a good thing if you don’t) then you are just going to have to set your sights on someone else.

People have this perception of beauty that is so far from the real world that it is hard for today’s kids to become the people they should be instead of the people the media wants them to be.

Personally, I wouldn’t change for someone. If they don’t like me for me, then I don’t need them in my life. I wouldn’t want to change for someone else. What happens if you change for someone and they want you to change again? Are you going to just keep changing to please someone? I really hope not.

Answer #2

Im a 24 year old grown up girl but your very cute.Who cares what people at school think,youll be finished in a couple of years anyway,though I know that doesint make it better now.Dont let other people rule your life or change who you are,they just need to all stick together to feel safe.Concentrate on all the stuff you like like art or music or whatever.Vain people who are all about how they look get disappointed cause their worrying about something that doesint matter almost as much as they think.U are cute tho.

Answer #3

no lol everyones got it wrong the girl isnt the one doing these things shes one of my best friends but I dont know

Answer #4

Go to a hair stylist (preferably gay male - they know the best) who can give you an awesome haircut for your face. Start wearing more bright colours , something that can show off your body. Have a good perfume, shave from time to time, and nobody will call you ugly. Noone is ugly - people can’t see one’s beauty if it’s hidden behind hair or black coloured clothes.

Answer #5

no !! dont ever let anybody tell you that you are just becus you might be shy ?? im guessing

maybe if you get a new hair cut , new aftershave .. people may start to notice you more talk to people

they are ugly deep down for makin you feel bad about urself

xx

good luck dont be ashamed to be you x

Answer #6

dont let them get to you you shouldnt change for someone you shouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you try and remember, there is no one else in this world like you you are unique, so dont change to be something your not!

Answer #7

im a girl and I like guys who have longish (not past their shoulders) either brown or blonde. dont go for black hair, especially if you have a fringe. maybe get some streaks…dont act like someone your not. try talking to this girl you like, dont try and make a move like asking her out just yet. just talk 2 her. and just act normal. and dont tuck your shirt in…it look sooo bad…lol. maybe wear a flat hat and wear those massive glasses which are in fashion at the momewnt. lol.

Answer #8

I have noticed time and time again that when a boy has long hair it takes away part of his manliness. The hair makes his shoulders and neck look smaller, and he looks shorter in height.

My opinion is to cut your hair, slap a smile on your face and love every body. If you reach out to people in a positive way they’ll react to that and reach out to you in a positive way too.

If someone laughs at you, laugh with them…be the ‘best friend’ to everybody…pretty soon everybody will open up to you and you’ll have tons of new buddies.

Answer #9

optex you nailed it! It is very true…don’t hide behind long hair and black clothes. Be proud of your manhood, show off a bit, be flashy.

Get an interested in something; singing, running, lifting weights, boxing, chess, art, whatever you have an interested in then exploit it. Get others involved…your excitement will be like a wildfire, everybody will wonder what made you so cool…so dude, get rid of that long hair and black clothes…take if from a Home coming queen, I know what makes a man look like a man.

Answer #10

you are as sexy as you think you are… … issuse being that if no one there like your or “the girl you love is a follower” then become a leader have her follow you I mean people that are followers are not always the best to hang with because they rather have friend then a boy/girl friend… well thats what I had anyway… is I became a leader and more people like me now… but a lot hate me… so ya

Answer #11

you shouldn’t change the way you look just so that someone will like you, especially if that person is the one saying the wwweee stuff, or doesnt deny it when said.

sometimes you just have to wait for someone to come into your life who will accept, defend and love you for who you are. so go out more, meet people around you are, branch out and make newer friends, real friends and you’ll see what comes with it.

Answer #12

well I used to have a similar problem. I used to have long hair and couldn’t get girls to notice me. I used to also dress in black t shirts and black jeans. The second I cut my hair and changed my style things became very different.I was now noticed by people who didn’t notice me before. My attitude and personality also grew to be more lively as a result of it which allowed me to be more confident with myself. I’m not telling you to change who you are. Just liven things up a bit.

Answer #13

eeep im taking her to da movies ^.^ I dint even have to change

Answer #14

Dont let anyone get you down they dont have the right… You shouldnt have to cange yourself to suit others… If they fck up your day fck up theres that my moto Though you probebly shouldnt get into a fight. If the girl you lovewont except you for who you are then shes obviously not right for you…you deserve better You deserve someone who truly does love you and except you for who you are…dont worry heaps of people get called emo, just these stupid chavs and metrosexuals needing something to do with there time… Dont listen to them, youre not ugly, no one is ugly…NO ONE

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