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Am I fat or is my dad just being messed??

I hate my dad he’s a jerk. No one at school calls me fat, actually I have never been called fat before. I even get lots of boyfriends and called pretty a lot. Except when my dad and bros pick on me. Im 5’4” just about to be 5’5” and not getting any taller. I weigh 128 lbs. I do sports like basketball, swimming, and im going to try volleyball soon. I try hard to lose weight but nothing ever works. I love PE its the only class I like. But still I never lose anything or gain. I’ve been this weight for about 4 months now, nvr changing. So am I fat or is my dad just a jerk?

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Answer #1

Snap …man I never undertsood why parents do that…I use to be of good weight and my mum still complained I was skinny…it was terrible..all my friends thought I had a great weight before and athletic body…but mama always yammering yammerin putting me down…I’d eat a lot and cry in the bathroom I was so jealouse of fat women..I wanted to be fat and NOW THAT I Lost 10kg and I AM SKIINY!!!…she still keeps at it…and I just had it…everytime she tells me I’m skinny I actually find myself telling her…”So F*uck it…(:-)”…I KNOW I’M SKINNY im just tired of hearing it from you mama!It’s really psycologically strainful…when she can’t shut up I’d punch a mirror till my fists bleed…it’s like I wish I could get her voice out of my head…yeah that usually does the trick…BUT DONT DO THAT!she just shuts up like she should afterwards.

Parents play a huge part in how their children behave and I can understand when you say you hate your dad.All those years of accumulating hate.Hearing them make fun of you.WHy are some parents so blind? If you don’t learn to break the cycle you’ll be in a psycological prison and you’ll always think there’s something wrong with you.

YEah I want you to know…if the doctor doesn’t tell you your overweight or you know it’s not an abnormal weight…then don’t listen to NOBODY…OKAY NOT EVEN YOUR DAD!..your normal and beautiful and if their too dumb to see it that’s their problem.

Answer #2

When I was younger my dad told me that nobody would love me if I stayed fat and I ended up developing an eating disored and having a relapse after getting better. If you let it get to you, you’ll probably end up in the situation I was in. And personally your dad sounds like an a$$hole.

Answer #3

Your father probably has weight issues himself, originating in childhood, and now he’s probably acting out his own frustrations on you, perhaps unconsciously. He may not mean to be horrible, look at the behaviour and person as separate entities.

Answer #4

Your dad is being a jerk.

Your height/weight is normal.

Answer #5

yes he is and hes fat totally fat! hes one of the biggest guys I’ve seen, but hes trying, he runs a lot, 6 miles a day, but still FAT haha

Answer #6

Hmmm… sounds like your dad is a total as*shole…

Answer #7

youre not fat in fact I think thats the average weight for your height forget them at the end of the day all you have is yourself anyway dont worry yourself…youre fine

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