Am I considered a hoe?

Am I considered a hoe? Cause well one night I was really bored so me and my friend brooke snuck out and went to this guy stefan’s house. And he had stuff to drink and I didn’t want to seem stupid or little so I drank some. Then brooke and the other guy fell asleep so it was me and stefan and I was drunk but he wasn’t…and we had sex..and I haven’t even kissed a guy before this happened!! This was a couple months ago..and im so angry cause I was planning to be a virgin till married. But yeah I feel like icky..like a wh*re. I hate it.

Answer #1

Don’t think it was your fault. How old was the guy? Do you think you were raped?

Answer #2

well no but he was 17 and im 15

Answer #3

ok you r too young to have had sex im 15 too and know im not ready for it yet but that guy took advantage or you and can be considered rape because your underage and u were drunk I sorta had an encounter like urs except it wasnt sex it was a party ihad drunk some alcohol whcih I had nvr had in large amounts before so I got drunk easily then this guy who wasnt drunk started making out with me and kept wanting too I told him I didnt want to but he kept pulling me forwards and I felt powerless to stop it, I know its not sex but I felt so horrible after because I wanted my first kiss to be with a guy I liked and im totally with you on the marriage thing and your not a whore that guy is just a jack ass, well to be an optimist at least you got the whole sex thing over without your parents knowing

Answer #4

You aren’t a h0e, you were a little silly, but it’s not like you act like that regularly. It’s was just a one time mistake, it sounds to me like you were taken advantage of, however alcohol isn’t really an excuse. If you can’t stay in control of yourself, then maybe in the future you shouldn’t be drinking. You can’t go back in time so just learn form it and more on. I hope you feel better about things soon :)

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