Alright My girlfriend's parents hate me passionately. What should

My girlfriend and I have been together for several months now. (six) her parents started out being alright with me, then we had an awkward confrontation after she told them we had sex… Things were fine still though. about 3 months into the relationship I got hella drunk and cheated on her with another girl. HER and I worked it out, and are still happy together, and even stronger and more open than before, but her parents found out and they want to set fire to my house for christ sake. Her and I are still seeing eachother, but as I gather they get in arguments about me. ( pretty intense ones ), because they don’t want us to see eachother. And just recently her Dad confronted me face to face and told me to stay the F*ck away from his daughter or he would have me arrested, knock me out, etc. Her mom threatened me with a restraining order… and I even had my own mother call to speak to them and they hung up on her. They are very immature for adults, and think they know everything, they also try and control my girlfriend’s life. ( She’s 18 and I think she should make her own decisions… ) But they have the car, and they are completely in control of all the pieces.. What should I do? I’ve tried speaking to them I get shuned.. I’ve tried reasoning.. I get shunned.. I haven’t lost my cool yet, or been rude or disrepectful, and I’m about ready to give up, because I don’t want to see my girlfriend get hurt by her parents any more. ( Emotionally ).

Any suggestions or advice would be Much appreicated.

Answer #1

dude I know exactly what your going through because the EXACT same thing happend to me but what I did is I sat down with her parents but she wasn’t there and I told them how bad I wanted to kill myself for what I did and I kept telling them that I would do anything to have her back and I told them that I would get rid of my lip ring and my earring and I won’t take them out for ANYTHING and they asked me why I did it and I flat out told them “I was drunk” and you just need to stick with the truth and hope they forgive you

Answer #2

well when you find out let me know my girls parents are a double s es so good luck

Answer #3

wow thisis a hard one. I know wheere youer comming from with hr parents. My brothers ex parents were like this and he ended up breakin up with her cuz he got sick of dealing with them. DO NOT lose your cool i can see howd u want to, but dont itll just make them hate you more! What u should do is have your girlfriend sit them down, (U SHOULD NOT BE THERE UNLESS YOU WANT AN ARGUMENT ON UR HANDS)and tell them, im 18, im a mature adult that can make my own decisons, and if u do not approve of the man i love than i am going to have to leave here and never return, and never speak to you again. All the parents are doing is trying to spilt you to up because you are freeing here of the chains (her parents) that have been holding her down all these years. They get weird when they think about not having her under their thumb. They need to give her her earned freedom, and if they dont then she needs to take some course in action, decide whats right, and do it herself, if you try to talk to them itll make them just angerer. Good luck my friend.

Answer #4

hey ok i can c were they would b up set cuz u did fck her and then cheated on her but holey sht i dont balme u 4 not wanting to c her parents but my god wow i dk if u have tried this or not but sit down with ur g.f and BOTH of her parents and try 2 starghtin this out and u r 100% rite she is 18 and should make her own Decisions! jus sit there with ur g.f and her parnets and tell them hey i fcked up and im sorry for fckin up can we jus put this behind us!

Answer #5

I have the same problem right here… im 17 and my girlfriend is also 17.. we are in the same class.. her mum knew that we are dating and she was taking it untill someday I had a very big fight with my girlfriend because I was soo nervous and I hit her on the face infront of many people.. her parents knew that I hit her .. then they made a very big problem and we had to stay away from eachother.. then we are baq together secretly from 3 weeks till now but I cant talk to her in school or c her out or anything.. im pissed off because im losing my girlfriend everyday… I just need to know how can I talk with her parents and what to say to them.. plzz reply and help I would really appreciate itt

Answer #6

I dunno… but the same thing is happening to me… Me and my gf were going out in 7th grade but then we broke up and hated eachother for the rest of the year… we made up in the next year and now we are going out again in 9th grade… Her parents started hating my back in 7th because we hated eachother… but then after we made up they continued to hate me and never really gave me a chance… the next reason they hate me is cuz in the 8th grade yearbook i wrote something really personal and they read it (wtf its her yearbook) and they freaked out… Finally this year 3 kids told there parents (these kids are such b*tches)that we were feeling eachother up and then their parents called my gfs parents… after this her parents had her “break up with me” but she didnt really… we just told them that we broke up… also when she had to break up with me her dad spoke to me on the fone and told me that im not allowed to go out with her daughter… now they just found out again that we are going out a few weeks later and they are freaking out yet again. I have no idea wat to do cuz her parents r starting to get skool into it (theyre trying to get the security to not let us be together) and they mite call my parents (who no nothing aboutANY of this) and i dont want my parents to find out because it would be the most AKWARD conversation ever… We havent gone past feeling eachother up and i no were only 14 (almost 15) but i feel that her parents are overreacting and that they need to give me a chance (also her parents are really screwed up and dont even love eachother which shows that their advice doesnt really mean anything). If anyone could tell me what to do i really really need it… thx

Answer #7

I know I have the same problem.. their parents started hating me when they went away on vacation and my girlfriend stayed alone in her house and well obviously I was going to go over and fuck the shit out of her on her parents bedroom thats what everybody does to get back at their in-laws. so we did it for about 5 hours since we both took extacy before fucking we had a blast we even used their her parents sex toys and my girlfriend let me watch their parent honeymoon video while she was taking a nap.. but what we didnt know is that they left hidden cameras all over the house to see if they could trust her daughter and me and well you get the picture.. (they really got pissed-off when I started busting on my girlfriend moms face on the porn video I was watching while my girlfriend was sleeping)we eventually broke it off it was just to akward to ever see my ex-girlfriend parents again I still see them once I a while since I live on the same street about 10 houses away its a big street. anyways man you can’t have it as bad as me!! peace

Answer #8

Yea my girlfriends parents are hopeless,,, her dad actually shot at me ,,, came out of her house and shot at me,, I didn’t press charges you know as a sign of good faith for my girl friend but seriously how am I suppsse to talk to a man who wanted to kill me

More Like This
Advisor

Sex

Sex education, Intimacy, Relationship advice

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Libido Drops™

sexual health products, wellness supplements, intimacy enhancers