advice on who to go to

im 13 and my mom died sun my family is saved and christain but im not real close to my dad but I like want and kinda need to talk to an adult would the youth pastor be the right choice he said at the viewing and funeral hes there for me no matter what if I need him but should I go to him I cant go to the pastor because hes like a dad and its wierd to talk about stuff like this with him because hes 40 but the youth pastors only 23 so should I go to the yp or not

Answer #1

Yes, please talk with your youth pastor. My thoughts are with you. I am sorry about your mother.

Answer #2

You should do whatever you want. Good luck with that (: ans I’m sorry for your mother.

Answer #3

thats completely up to you whatever you think is right im so sorry to hear about your mother but trust your feelings!! good luck

Answer #4

A youth pastor is a good choice, as is any adult family members (aunt’s uncles, etc.) you may be close to…or a school counselor.

Answer #5

Yes, you should.

It’s important that you talk about your feelings - it’s the first step towards healing. If you are more comfortable with the youth pastor, then go to him.

Answer #6

Yes but I think you should go talk to your father and gain some trust in him and get closer to him so you can feel closer to him. I mean he’s your father think about how he might feel if you became closer to the yp then the person who helped create you. Hope I helped! I’m sorry about your mom.

Answer #7

Definitely talk to the youth pastor, you’ll be more comfortable and can relate better - your Mom is probably looking down on you and very proud - you’re in my thoughts and prayers…HE IS RISEN !!

Answer #8

yes the pastor can be a good place to begin, and the pastor can even hel;p you draw closer to your Dad during this time of Greiving.

It is important to talk things like this out, and work through the complicated feeling it brings up, and this could be a good time to confide in your Dad, and share you sorrow with him, and let him share his with you.

God bless and may the lord keep you and yours close to his heart

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