What can i do so that my 3 year old sister likes me?

Last night i fell asleep with her on my cousins bunk bed i have no idea how she got from one side of the bed to the other but she fell of the bed thank god she landed on my cousins mattress that was on the floor so she didnt get hurt but now she wont even look at me and when she talks to me she blames me for pushing her of the bed and i have no idea what to do??!! Any one have any ideas??

Answer #1

Wow, what an age difference! My best advice to you is to take it one step at a time, day by day. Remember you are dealing with a 3 yr old, not much on making sense or thinking clearly. It’s more of an instinct thing learning as they go along.

She is mad at you right now, if you try to explain & reason with her…all you will accomplish is screaming back & forth at her, her blaming you that you didnt push her with you attacking back that you didnt. It’s only going to make things worse…with her resenting you more.

Allow her to cool off for a few days then sit her down next to you perhaps doing her hair. Explain to her in a clam way that you didnt push her off the bed, that you have no idea how she got to the other side of the bed…and how horrible you feel bcz she thought that you would try to do anything to hurt her. Hopefully a few days would have passed & calmed her down so she just let it go.

good luck, hope this helps.

Answer #2

It can always be a problem getting lil toddlers to smile at you again, but this usually works for lil children that are upset with you, i know by experience i’ve worked at nursery’s, children and adults with learning disabilities and even though its a pain to keep saying sorry over and over if you repeat your self with this lil speech it should do the trick, now make sure when you say this your in front of her nd at her level so get down on yours knees so you two would be eye to eye nd say this, “i wana talk to you nd just say this, I’m sorry, i never meant that to happen, i do love you loads, nd I’m really sorry, i hope you wont stay angry at me for long” then smile at her nd offer her something such as a hug or getting her something like a lil gift can even be a cookie or going out to the park or which ever floats your boat. hope everything goes well darling, much love Peace x

Answer #3

I will try that as soon as i get home thank you :)

Answer #4

shes so stubern!! lol But shes my sister and i love her so thank you!!

Answer #5

no problem, hope either of these methods work for ya.♥

Answer #6

Ill tell you when i get home :))!!

Answer #7

sweet…:)

Answer #8

im not saying you should do this, cause its wrong lol. but if i had a little bro i would whisper “just wait till tonight” and then see how much he doesn’t tell on me XD

Answer #9

if u can drive, take her out ti do things and do the best you can do things with her and get her stuff…..like a bribe if u will……trust me it works

Answer #10

Yeah it does work but i feel bad when i do it !! lmao

Answer #11

Do you whant me to get in trouble again?? lmao

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