What do you all thing of a nearly 17 year old with a 21 year old ?

depends what state your in if its legal.. i datd a 22 year old when i was 15.. i had to be 16 with the state i was in… but it shouldnt be frowned upon..what about a 27 year old with a 31 year old? no one ever says nything bout that, and the older.. more mature

Im the younger one .

Thats not a big deal at all- don’t let everyone scare you with the legal or illegal stuff. My last bf was actually 27- its all what you feel for each other– thats what counts. :)

If you love each other, it shouldn’t matter how old you are. Just go for it. Good Luck!

Nope not 21, it’s 18

i think its fine. i think age is nothing to be a factor. i think its great haha nothing wrong with it at all

That is fine AS long as YOU ARE over the age of consent, otherwise I do have a problem with that because then he could get into big trouble. So check the web for the law in your country

Otherwise I don’t have a problem with it, as long as he isn’t dating you only for the sex. Over here we are not as sensitive to the whole age thing in general for teenagers and people in their early 20’s because both are (generally) not considered adults yet in terms of perception.

I do not have a problem overall with big age differences, however I do not feel that a full grown men dating teenagers. That just shouldn’t be happening.

Where I am 16 is consent, if the age difference is 5 years or less .

Then it is fine too me. I have friends that started dating guys older than your age difference at the same age than you and they are still together. It shouldn’t matter that much.

i think it really depends on the guy. The parents should really get to know him.

Awful there is so much that could go wrong trust me i know all they want is sex and o know what your thinking no he is amazing he isnt like that but they are all older guys want is to get with a young girl who is unexperinced and easy to control they will tell you anything i lost alot when i thought it would be okay but it is you decision but at least take some of this in you have forever to grow up and find the man you really want to be with so please dont risk it all.

Thank you for the insight . (: I will take this into consideration , for real .

i have the same situation. we’ve been together for 9 months, it works. i’d suggest it. just make sure your parents are alright with it.