How to get my Mom to let me live with my boyfriend?

Dear x_staycee_x ,

You can’t legaly live with him, unles your Mother lets you..and if you are only 16years old then you should still be going to school. Still unless you are anything like me and you finished early but you don’t sound anything like me if you want to move in with your boy friend in whom I dought you have been with very long.

The best thing to do is wait a while a few years be good..see if you are still together while you are at it. Then move in with eachother lliving with some one and going out with them are two different things entirely. angelfire2708 is right and if you can not understand what she is saying then all you are doing is setting your self up to get hurt.

Reguardless of your age don’t just move in with some one. It is not wise even if you where both 20. You Mother is looking out for you and what is in your better interest.

you really need to think about what you are doing you say you love this man and you do not even know what love is…it is a lot more then feelings you have..the feelings are what tartsit yes but that not love..love tkes time and work. In order for a relationship to work you have to want to work at it and it does take work a lot of work.

She mostly does not want to see you hurt and given his age he is mostly not thinking to much pass one thing.

You should really think about what you are doing.

Heres a fact you might want to consider: This may offend some people, but it’s just an opinion based on some statistics and from looking at real-world relationships. So, please do read with an open mind, even if you do not agree with the points made here. Statistics show that most people who living together usually don’t ever marry, or the marriage generally ends in divorce. Many individuals (especially women) are doing themselves ill service by living with a partner in a intimate relationship, without being married.

One of the many reasons divorce rates are so high amongst people who have “shacked up” before marrying is that they anticipate that things will change after they are married. Some people believe that ultimately being married will all of a sudden make life seem perfect and the other person will change. The reality for most is that it does not happen. This disappointment is ultimately what makes many individuals to end the marriage. Many men living together never ending up marrying because many men simply do not feel the need to. If you look at it from a man’s perspective, he is basically getting everything (and probably more than) a wife would give him without marriage, so why should he even bother? There is a comfort zone mostly for men who live with women they are not married to. There is no actual (or legal) commitment. He can leave whenever he wants with much less guilty feelings than if it was his wife. Women are most likely to want to marry as she knows in her subconscious mind of the fear that he may pick up his bags and leave at any time without too much emotional hassle.

This may sound brutal to some women, but there is a difference on how live-in girlfriends and wives are looked at by men. A man is much less likely to leave his wife than he is to leave his girlfriend. Men do leave their wives of course, but for the most part, men are much more likely to leave their girlfriends more easily and without guilt. It’s a similar principal for men cheating on their girlfriend verses their wife. Again, this unquestionably happens where some men cheat on their wives, but a man will feel less guilty about cheating on his girlfriend then his wife.

The best solution is to not living together with someone if you are looking for a possible marriage partner. This will benefit women more than men, but it helps the marriage overall for both partners.

truthfully… I don’t think your mom wants you to live with him because of his age and because basically it’s just going to be you and him in the house I am sure she trust you but you can never trust a boys hormones and she is your mom she just wants you to be safe… you cant blame your mom for caring even though you look at the situation differently

truthfully… I don’t think your mom wants you to live with him because of his age and because basically it’s just going to be you and him in the house I am sure she trust you but you can never trust a boys hormones and she is your mom she just wants you to be safe… you cant blame your mom for caring even though you look at the situation differently

Yeh But It Kills Me Not To Live With Him Becuase My Mum Stops Me From Seeing Him Even Talking On The Phone And It Kills Me And Surely If My Mum Loved Me She Wutn Do This because It Killing Me, I Cry Every day/Night!

Yeh But I Love Him To Bits, My Mum Wont Let Me See Him At All She Wont Let Me Out The House Uncase Ah Meet Him.. All because He 20 But Im Legal [16] So If Ah Live With Him Then Ah Get Tew See Him =[

It is because of respect that a man waits for his bride until marriage, and visa versa.

You deserve respect and that is why your mom is protecting your innocence, besides… by talking with you, she really loves you!

You’re still a minor and your mom is still responsible for you, so yes she can call the police and have them drag you home.

:( Awww stace.!

Erm… wel why don’t ya wait til after skool… wait til ya like get a saturday job then ya mum might not be as harsh.! I duno.! :(

Lv Ya [ Hayz ] x