15 years & I want a baby . . . ?

okay, so im 15 & I have sex with my boyfriend who we been together for around 1 year & a half. he’s my first love . & we plan on getting married. but lately I been feeling a little strange. I want to have a baby . . . . like I has this thought stuck in my head saying if I have a baby with him (with my first love) it’ll be a part of me & a part of him together in one. so godforbid we ever break up , I’ll always remember him & have a place for him in my heart because he’s my first love & he’s the father to my baby. & of course he’s going to want to see it ( because he’s not like that to not see him) so then we’ll see each-other in the future . . & maybe can get back together. I dont know if this seem’s crazy to you ? but I think it should work . . . . .

Answer #1

omg youre only 15 you have a lot ahead of you. you know that if you have a baby now you have to drop out of school? then take car of it what future are you going to give your baby? what example are you going to be for the baby? im 18 and I have a boyfriend and I’ve had the same feeling when I was your age but then I thought about the good and bad consequences. I have a friend who 18 and shes having a lot of trouble imagine you whos only 15! think about it. you may see it beautiful bec hes the love of your life right now but honestly if you guys ever break up (hopefully not) youre going to hate him or dislike him. bec he left you being a single mom. THINK.

& I agree with pinkdottedbow teenagers are really getting stupider.

Answer #2

it is crazy, it is a normal tought, but keep it as that A thought, do not act on it. I am not going to sit here and type all the reason why you should not become a mother at this age, I am sure you are smart enough to figure all that out.

Answer #3

keep that out of your mind. if its your first love and you guys plan to getting married then you should wait for it. you are just 15, you have a career,you have lot of things to do moreee . think before you do something wrong. I hope your relationship goes well. godd bless.

Answer #4

Many teens have this feeling.

But it would extremely irresponsible of you to get pregnant, make your parents see you like that so young, and then somehow find a way to be able to support your baby.

It is also extremely expensive and painful.

Teenagers are definitely getting stupider by the ages.

Answer #5

I had my child at 15. I dont regret it but I still wish I had of waited because now I have been with this guy for a year now and I really like him im almost done with school but already got a kid lol so it is just better to wait.

Answer #6

Give her a break people. She wants to be a mother let her be one! Sheesh! Where’s the love? Don’t you listen to these negative-ninnies deaerie! You go ahead and enjoy procreating with your man who I’m sure is handsome and very good in bed. Be spontaneous and focus on the pleasure instead of the ‘why-nots’ of parenthood. And do let us know if it’s a boy or a girl eh! You go girl!!! Oh youth!

Answer #7

im 15 too. and I had a thought like that;; I thought if I had a baby I would be treated more like an adult by my family. NOT! but did yu loose yu’r virginity to hime? because if yu did…yu will NEVER for get him…because I lost mine to a guy I hate so much in a verry bad place…but;; I cant seem to forget about it no matter how hard I try;;so maybe yu should rethink this over before yu mess up your life…hope I helped(:

Answer #8

Having a baby at 15 isn’t a very good idea, for obvious reasons, but having a baby at 15 in case you break up in the future is ridiculous. A baby should be a baby, not some kind of buffer between you and your possibly future ex boyfriend. What makes you so sure that if you two did break up after becoming parents that you would want to see him? People break up for a reason, you know. You are assuming he might dump you someday, but he’ll always have to come around to see your child and therefore you’d have opportunities to win him back…does your boyfriend know how delusional and calculating you are? Not a good idea.

Answer #9

Im also 15 and I’ve had that same feeling. I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have discussed that its better to wait until we are married so we can support the baby and also so we can finish up school and go to college to get a good jobs. I know you love him and I also love my boyfriend but you got to think that you may not be with him for the rest of your life because things do happen. I hope you make the right decision and wait until married or at least until your outta school.

Answer #10

no you should think on that a little while longer okay. Enjoy your highschool days because they will be a blast. The person you may love the most right now you may end up seriously hating him and having a baby would make it worse because he will constantly have to be around so just maybe wait til your 18 then if you guys are still together then think about that.

Answer #11

uhh why would you want a baby I was the mistake well actually all my brothers and sister where mistakes lol you don’t know what its gonna be like no offense and I don’t thik it will help because what if you meet up in the futur and he is married with a life or he loves someone else there is always gonna be more fish in the see and I bet that kid won’t want 2 grow up with out a dad around all the time but I can’t make you change your mind I don’t recomend it get your life straight first get marriewd get your own house get a job then maybe kids??

Answer #12

If you’re planning on getting married, then wait for it.

Having a baby at 15 is not going to help your relationship…the first year with a child is very difficult and many relationships actually fall apart BECAUSE of the child.

You have a lot of things to think about.

Are you financially secure? Can you afford health care for the child? Do you plan on having a social life? Are you going to finish school?

These are only a few of the problems that arise when you’re a teenage mom…I know, I was there.

Answer #13

Don’t Get Ahead Of Yourself

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