ohkay so im 14 and mature for my age so I thought I was ready for sex. so me and my boyfriend of 4 monthsz had sex about 3 or 4 timesz. and 2 of those timesz I was on my period the first time everythang went fine it was just blood everywhere but the 2nd time I didnt bleed at all and I was still on my period but I bleed afterwards. so my problem isz that im not immature to no have protected sex he wore a condom but when he came he pulled his penis out and rite when he did the condom popped. so I don't know. can someone please give me advice or tipsz. thanksz. ily. <3333
You have a very good chance of being pregnant! Having sex at 14 does NOT make you mature by any means. Physical desire does not equal emotional readiness. Humans are physically able to perform sexually at an early age, but they are NOT mentally or emotionally prepared for the consequences that come with sexual activity.
Teens need to have a total understanding of sex, and the maturity and education to handle the various aspects of it before they make a decision to become sexually active. This understanding comes with age, and while there is no magical point in time when people are suddenly ready to become sexually active, one thing is for certain, waiting for sex never hurt anyone, but engaging in sex too early sure has ruined a lot of young lives.
Sex is a big deal because if engaged in irresponsibly, pregnancy will result. Many teenagers are lured into a false security by using condoms. Condoms are a birth control method, but a highly unreliable form of birth control. Condoms can not fully protect against pregnancy or disease. The only fool-proof, no fail method of birth control is abstinence.
Well your definately not mature enough to spell right or understand the consquences of sex. Saying your 14 and your is a huge misconception and I think you should rethink your stand point, values and morals. Virginity is important something you can never get back and you just gave it up. Theres always a chance you can get pregnant even a condom is not 100%. I suggest you go to the drug store and get the morning after pill if this happened within the last 72 hrs. If you have waited longer then I suggest you get a pregnacy test. You say your mature but if have sex and now may be pregnant... how mature is that?
