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Well, I think about the question, and decide if the answer should be based on facts or opinion. If it's a factual question, I do some research and come back with an answer. If it's opinion, I weigh the negatives and positives to try and find a respectable balance (I don't always succeed - admittedly). However, when the person asking the question is coming off as snarky or rude, then it tends to ruffle my feathers a little too much and I often answer in a manner which is less than acceptable - I'm working on that, lol.
I believe your answer should be honest, and helpful...without being rude. If I know the answer already, I will answer to the best of my knowledge. If I am not sure, or have no clue about the subject, I will do some research...and then answer based on what I read about the subject. Sometimes, if the question is silly, or obvious...I may point that out. As well as give a sarcastic answer.
I feel bad for not commenting on yours! :/
I have to say, I agree to some degree, I feel that harsh answer can lead to tuning out and that just doesn't work when you're dealing with an example you're presenting. The truth might be harsh, sure, but I do think there's a way to present it so that the recipent comprehends without feeling attacked, judged, etc... So to speak!
It totally depends on the question, on my mood, on the tone of the question. I can be more sympathetic with some than others. It may not be fair, but it is what it is. On a particularly generous day I can be very nice. On a bad day, I'm not as nice. Answers are just as honest either way. I will tend to do a little research on most stuff that isnt purely opinion based.
For me most of the time the best way is to at least give a diplomatic answer, however if someone really isn't thinking or is asking how to get pregnant at age 13, I do think the best way is the harsh truth.
I have the same problem to, but I guess since you're an admin, and this is a well known position, you tend to get nasty remarks a lot more than the average user. Totally not fair but what can you do!
Let's say questions in general. How would you usually attempt to answer a question. I'm sure you have some sort of process, right? :)
The world will judge you, better to hear it on an advice site in my opinion than in the real world.
answer with a smile :D and the truth and sometimes with comedy ^_^
It depends on the question and the manner in which it was asked.
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I like your honesty and your answer :)
Thanks! :D
