Do you feel it's best to go out with someone when you don't know them or when you know them?

I think it’s better to go out with someone you don’t really know all that well, because then you have more to talk about and it’s more interesting and it won’t be awkward if you break up or something.

you should probably get to know them first? duh?

I have more trouble going out with guys I’ve known for a long time, mostly because I suck at relationships and I’m terrified I’ll eventually loose them if I do go out with them, even if we do get along great. A few of my relationships were based off of just knowing the guy for a couple months or so and then just going out because we got along. I don’t know if that’s a better idea or not though, because I ended up breaking up with them anyways XD Connor has a good point though with his statement. None of my relationships have ended on bad terms, but if they did, it would be so much better to have it be with someone you and your friends don’t know well, rather than someone you and your friends are all close to, especially if you never want to see each other again and they have to take sides for somethings.

No matter whom it is your are about to date, usually you have to know something about them…so of course you are going to get to know them before asking them out on a date!

Suppose you have a convo with them & see that they arent at all what you thought they were when talking to them the first few times…just imagine how awkward that would be sitting in front of them on a date and kinda asking yourself ok, what do I say next! (not fun!)

I would never agree to going out witha guy unless I have had a few good convo’s to even see if we hit it off. After a while of doing that when I feel more comfortable with that person is when I will agree to actually dating him! (Just my personal opinion)

ive known this guy for about a week and i half and we clicked right away so were goin out on the weekend. as long u kno there not a perverted old man, go ahead and adventure the world. lifes short so meet new people.

Umm well how well? Like best friends since little kids who want to be more? Or like known for a year or two? The first thing would be akward as hell…especially if they break up. The second one which is where me nd my gf are comin from seems fine because you and her/him have already gotten to know each other but you’ll still have things to talk about. And if you go out with someone you don’t really know you may not last because even though you might click right away you can’t really be sure that you have enough in common to make it work ya know.

I dont think there’s a right answer to this. Some people will go out with people they know or their friends, some people would be horrified at the thought of turning a friendship into a romantic relationship. I think you do whatever feels comfortable for you. I also think it’s best to be flexible and not limit yourself. It may be corny, but I believe in seeing someone and just knowing. Or having a conversation with someone and instantly clicking. I think it is rare, but I believe it can happen. I think friendships can turn into lifelo.ng loves. Why not be open to love when it comes in whatever form it comes.

That is complicated, Alot of people like to get to know the person there going to date but, if you get to close itll be kinda weird when you go to date them.

Well some people are different. But for me, I would like to know the person just enough so that when we go out on a date or something, I could get to know him more.

Well going out with a someone you barely met can create tension, awkward moments, and trust issues. Hanging out with this person for a few months to several can helo your decision, otherwise they may not seem like someone you can handle when there is an important issue involved.