yikes think I might be pregnant

I am 14 bout to be 15 in april and I think I might be pregrant… what do you think I should do? I dont want to have an aboration because I do not believe in that at all… but I dont know if I am ready to have a kid

Answer #1

Have it adopted. Don’t kill it.

Answer #2

yes adoption is a wonderful choice I am adopted and I really am doing ok but sometimes it is hard

Answer #3

umm I would have to say go get a pregnancy test and see if you really are pregnant and then if you are you should think of if your parents would be upset if you are pregnant and how old is the father because if he is older and wiser you should see if he would want to take care of it or not answer me back

Answer #4

Consider having an open adoption.

Answer #5

depends on how long ago you had sex. take a test. first. if you are, there are pills you can take. like Plan B. but you have to have one of your parents or gaurdians with you when you go to the pharmacy to get it…

Answer #6

It amazes me how calm you sound about this.. or that might just be me.

AFTER your missed period, about 5 or so days after, take a pregnancy test - more than one is better just so there are no false positives or negatives.

In my opinion, MY OPINION, I would have an abortion. Adopting the baby will cause you great heartache and stress. I’m not saying an Abortion wouldn’t cause heartache but it would be much easier for you in the long run as no child will be born out of this mistake.

If you do not want to abort then I would consider an open or closed adoption.

At 14/15, I’m pretty sure you are not ready for a child so the last thing I would do is keep it. You are not capable of looking after a baby alone and it is unfair to pass it off to your parents.

You made the adult decision of having sex - now you have to face the consequences.

If you are not pregnant, use protection. Don’t be this silly again.

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