What do I do about these groups and drama?

Now, if you read this ALL, I appreciate it. I’ve been struggling with the same problems over and over.

Okay, its kinda hard to explain, theres 4 girls. Amanda, Ashley, Sarah and me. Before it was Me, Sarah, Ashley, and Allanna. Sarah and Allanna don’t talk, im okay with that. Ashley and I were best friends. Ashley though I was going to find someone know so beat me to the punch. Now its Ashley and Amanda. And me and Sarah. I hate how its spilt up into groups now, and we hate how Ashley tries to hide her plans with Amanda because she thinks we won’t find out. I don’t see why All four of us (me sarah ashley and amanda) can’t all hang out? Why do two of them go off and try and get anyone they can to hang out together? Me and Sarah have confronted her about it, and its fixed for ONE day then it goes back to everyone split up! What bugs me also is that when both of them are together, the don’t acknowledge anyone else. We already had 2 fights over this s,h’I,t. Im sick of it! Amanda says she wants it to ve ‘everyone’ but she makes no effort, im not trying to make myself sound all superior, but me and sarah do try, we try and talk to them because then we get dirty looks from Ashley mainly. And it feels as though shes trying to rub in my face, I HAVE A NEW FRIEND I DONT NEED YOU. And when I don’t have plans and she does, it seems she tries to rub that in my face too. Maybe because Amanda gives her 24/7 attention. I don’t know.. What I do know is WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT IT, it don’t work. Sometimes I don’t even want to talk about it, because it will be a big ol’ fight for nothing. And Ashley will just be like I CAN HANG OUT WITH MORE PEOPLE THAN YOU GUYS. yeah no s,h’,I ‘ t she can, but she don’t have to leave us completely. After our exam yesterday Sarah wanted us to wait for her cause yesterday we never. We (me ashley ) said yes. everything was peachy. Then we get in the exam room, and Ashley suddenly says GUYS DONT WAIT FOR ME, were like okay. and then after the exam, she waits for Amanda.. Seems like shes picking favorites, and its bugging me, and I CANNOT get over it.

I just want to know what to do. If a fight begins, it’s only going to be Ashley giving me dirty looks, and Amanda probably not talking to me much. If your going to say: -Confront her -Talk it out -Ignore it -Get new friends -Try and make her jealous -Make more plans than her -Give her dirty looks Or anything about trying to be the better competition, I don’t want to know about it.

Answer #1

well I dont know what to say. the same thing kinda happened to me. I eventually just got new friends and hang out with them but I always talk to my old friends. I hope everything works out for you…

Answer #2

This sort of thing happened to me in the 6th grade. Nothing worked. Eventually me and my bestie just told them that we didn’t want to be friends anymore bc it was way too mush drama. They agreed and it went smoothly from there. Yes I was sad to have lost two of my best friends but in the end it made us all happier. We didn’t talk all of 7th grade but in 8th we started talking again and now (9th) its wayyy better. No competition, outdoing each other or dirtly looks. Were friends again. So basically what I’m saying is maybe you all just need a break from each other. I hope this helps and I wish yuo luck

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