Is it wrong to ask the boy/girl you are dating to try and be friends first?

I like to take it slow,really get to know them before going out.I don’t just what is thier name and thier age then make out.To me that feels kinda gross,like kissing a total stranger.Ew!Like like to know one’s true feelings,dreams and thoughts.Like I am a clone of them.Is that wrong?

Answer #1

no its not wrong. Wow, you are more intelligent then most 14yr olds. I’m amazed that you realize this :] i think you are very mature & your handing this situation perfectly. Get to know someone before dating them, its bring a whole new passion to the relationship.

Answer #2

Why thank you!You just made(what is left of it)my day!Thx!=D

Answer #3

Of course, this is what everyone should do! If you ask me that is, yep, I agree with Irene, defininetly not the average 14 year old, in a good way. You see, it’s more important to grow an emotional connection before a physical one or else the physical one just loses all of it’s value! Yes, this is exactly the right thing to do! Don’t ever change this mindset! :)

Answer #4

Thx!=D

Answer #5

no its not wrong out all u need to noe dose things before u date den evrythin will go wrong u shud always be friends first if he dosnt lik it den he go screw himself dont worry bout it evryone is friends 1st noone drops in right away

Answer #6

no nothing is wrong with dat! it is better to get to know him as a friend because den u gain trust ( very important) and u get to know his likes, dislikes etc without dat “awkwardness” den slowly u can take it to di next level and after di relationship kicks off… when u have arguments or disagreements it will be easier to talk to him about it since u were friends before dat.

Answer #7

Thx!=D

Answer #8

Thx!=D

Answer #9

Sorry I spelled “their” wrong.My bad!!!!!!!!=S

Answer #10

u’re welcome sweeite =]

Answer #11

I am not sure….I am too tired ‘ ‘ (Bags under eyes)

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Answer #12

=D(ran out of things to say)=S

Answer #13

Sorry again that face is messed upp =s!!!!!!

Answer #14

lol wow ok

Answer #15

upDang it!

Answer #16

akward or how ever you spell it =s

Answer #17

it’s spelled awkward lol

Answer #18

Too tired where Ilive it’s almost 11:00pm but I did a lot today so I am super tired so excuse me for my mispellings.=/

Answer #19

I liveagain dang it!!!!!!!

Answer #20

welcome

Answer #21

Sorry tired…going to bed soon.

Answer #22

Have a goodnight’s rest! Totallyt random but yeah :)

Answer #23

lol ok sleep tight =]

Answer #24

See you tomarrow funadvice!i am going to bed!!!!FINALLY!!!!!TIRED…..(weakly)…so very tired…..zzzzzzzzzz

Answer #25

Night Miguel and dnzi24!!!!!!!!And the rest of funadvice….yeah i’m going to sign out now….night!;)

Answer #26

No..it’s a great way to start a relationship..the only way, really. Going slow is never wasted time.

Answer #27

Why thx!=D

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