Would you consider this sex?

My friend and I had a discussion about this: Her and her ex boyfriend we’re experimenting, trying to have sex, but only his head kind of went in and he was soft. We both say its NOT sex but her current boyfriend says it is. What do you think?

Answer #1

As said abov’.

Answer #2

It’s technically sex, but not really much of anything. She’s not a virgin, though.

Answer #3

if he wasn’t hard I would say no

Answer #4

Not sex.

Answer #5

is not sex. he was soft and it prob ddint go in at all.

Answer #6

If his penis went anywhere in her vagina, it is sex.

Answer #7

I’d consider her not a virgin, not exactly sex, but yeah they did it.

Answer #8

Its not sex. Because the actual vagina isnt RIGHT there .. Thts just the opening and the vagina is a little farther back If yew want to be technical. Buht from my opinion, no !

Answer #9

It’s sex. The peni’s went in hard or not into where the v.g is, so yeah it’s sex. Even if the hymen isn’t broken.

Answer #10

i wanna now why only his head went in ? why did he stop there?

Answer #11

if he went in all the way yes thats sex soft or hard either way but if he just stuck the head in then technically its not

Answer #12

I think this can go two ways. in a way it is because she was penetrated. but in a way, no, because only the head went in and he wasnt hard. so i’m no sure.

Answer #13

LOL… good reply

Answer #14

i dont think sex has anything to do with being hard or wet. getting hard (wet if women) come from sexual arousal. u can have sex even though u r not sexually aroused. and the definition of vrgnty is really broad. some people think only penetration is sex. others consider oral and anal as losing vrgnty too. and some people consider just exploring and touching each other’s body with lust is sex. and yet there are peopel who think if you master-bate while alone, that’s sex without partner so u are not virgin. wierdly, and VERY RARELY, there are people who will say u r not a virgin if u have used a tampon but since tampon is no where connected to sex i completely disagree unless she uses it to master-bate with is wierd but it will make her virginity questionable. in my opinion, she is no longer a virgin cuz it went in her… but really it’s up to her whether she considers herself or not. but pen15 did go in and it doesnt have to be all the way.

Think about this: what if the pen15 was really very small and even though the guy entered completely it still wasnt completely in her cuz she has a longer vgina… she wouldn’t be a virgn then, so y would she be now if it went in even if a little.

Answer #15

SO YES IT WAS SEX :P

Answer #16

I think if you had the intention of having sex, then it would be considered sex. Other wise, if you were just testing things out, it wold be an expiriment.

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