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Worried mind/Fear of loseing my love

ok so I have been in this relationship for 7 months and this to be honest is my first really relationship. So I sometimes get scared that im going to lose her also I sometimes fear there is someone else or that something might happen to her when she isnt with me

can anyone help me

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Answer #1

Stop being so paranoid. TRUST ME. I was (and sort still am) the same way, but I’m trying to learn to tone it down. I’m in my first relationship and engaged, I was always paranoid thinking I was going to lose him and that there was someone else, when I know good and well that there isn’t and will never be. You have to let go of those fears. You know how your girlfriend is after that amount of time and by now, you should know that she probably wouldn’t do those things. I’ve been with my fiance for almost a year now, and I know that he will never do that plus he said he’s not going anywhere. Just relax and try and get those fears out of your mind. If you keep thinking the way you’re thinking, you will push her away…BELIEVE me, I almost lost mine thinking that way, so stop it! Okay? You don’t want to lose the something good that you have.

Answer #2

This is perfectly normal to worry that you’ll lose your love and if you were to lose her, don’t forget, there are plenty of women out there maybe not the same person. I’m sure she isn’t with anyone else but, you never know. Just tell her how you feel and maybe she’ll understand. Just pray about this relationship and hope that you’ll continue to be in the relationship. That’s all I could think of right now.

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