Why would a guy do this?

I had a guy friend who I was really good friends and I sorta liked. I thought he had liked me too because he would nickname me ‘cutepie’ (I didn’t like it but w e) and he we would walk down the hallway with his arm around me. Or sometimes he would try holding my hand and bear hugged me everyday. I finally told him that I liked him but he turned me down by saying that he would hurt me if we dated. I quickly was able to get over it and we stayed good friends. Well he was a senior going off to college and I figured we wouldn’t see each other after that. But he kept saying like the whole last week of how he wanted to hang out and what we were going to do ect.

Couple weeks pass since school ended and so I decided to text him asking if we were still going to hang out. He just says “I don’t know later, depends if I want to or not.” After that he started saying “You shouldn’t like me, I would hurt you.” I just said alright and kept talking to him every other few days. Then one night he said that I could hang out with him later that night but I told him it was to late and I was already in bed. So he says “and you didn’t invite me?” I just said “well maybe next time jking.” Then he says “no snuggling :(?” I told him “I’m not a touchy person.” So he asks “even if I wanted to cuddle?” I asked “why would you want to cuddle with someone you don’t have feelings towards?” He said “ I never said I didn’t lol.”

A few days later I started to talk to him and everything was fine until he told me he didn’t want to be my friend. I asked him why and he just said that I get to mad/freak out to much. I didn’t understand what I get mad/freak out over? and so I fought to keep our friendship (I know I shouldn’t do that and it was dumb). I told him we could hang out at the movies or w e. So he asked me “what would you do if you saw me in the shower alone?” I was confused by this and just asked “why would I be there in the first place?” He says “we can’t be friends.” I asked him why he asked that question and he says “just to prove a point goodbye.”

Sorry this was long but I’m so confused by this…please help me :(

Answer #1

This guy is a douche bag leave him alone. Obviously he thought he was going to get laid. And then said he had feelings for you just to see if you’d give it up. Maybe that’s what he meant when he said he would hurt you?

Answer #2

Why do you keep posting this question? Are you also “fallenmoo”? You just dont seem to be getting it. He wants ONE thing, and its not a relationship with you. Hes looking for free sexual activity with NO strings! This guy is NO friend, becasue friends dont disrespect friends!

Answer #3

this guy is a straight up jerk he wanted to play with your emotions. he wanted to see what you you would do. and when he was done playing and got bored he left. seems to me he was about to make you his sex slave by asking that question. and by you asking why u would be there he got nervous so he just said goodbye.and he didnt really love you at all he was trying to get you to be his sex slave. believe me. been there done that. hope this helps

Answer #4

Angelfire is dead on. All he wants is to do is get between your legs. That plus have girls desperate enough to keep pursuing him - it strokes his ego. Drop him and NEVER call or text him again. If he contacts you brush him off like the louse that he is.

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