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Why wont he break up with her?

So theres this guy, I really like him; I think I may even love him. He tells all his mates he really likes me. He’s always holding my hand and putting his arms round my waist; hugs me for ages(closing his eyes) Tickles me. But unfortunately he ha a girlfriend, she lives quite far away and he never sees her. His phone rang today and he didnt answer because’ he was hugging me. One of our mates said “ What if it’s your girlfriend” he was like “Owell”. Apparently he told his and my mates that he only sees his girlfriend as a mate now, but why wont he break up with her? What should I do? Should I speak to himm about how he feels or what? =/ Thank youu.

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Answer #1

He sounds like a wanker in all honesty. If he really cared about you, and wanted it to progress into a relationship he would have broken up with her already. Granted things like that are hard but what he’s doing is unfair on everyone. Like anielleday17 talk to him it’s the only way to really sort things out.

Answer #2

For one thing, hes too old for you. HEs a lot more experience than you are. Older boys play on young girls because they are naive.

He’s always holding my hand and putting his arms round my waist; hugs me for ages> Hes coming on too strong for not being in any kind of relationship…Especially when he has a girlfriend. He is basically cheating on her, and if your flattered by it (as it seems you are) then you need to open your eyes. IF he really liked you, he wouldnt be messing around with you while hes in a relationship with someone else! Its obvious that he is a player, and your falling for his every word he, and everything he does.

Answer #3

Oh I forgot to say he’s 17 and I’m 13.

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