Why should I accept his apoligy?

Ok so my mom is have mix feelings for a guy that said that he would marry her but then he crushed heart and left her crying at the house on the floor. And now he says that he wants to make things up and get married again. My mom asked me if that would bay am not good at making good decisions and so I have came here to ask. Like a survey if you will. So what should I say?

Answer #1

To tell you the truth, if he made your mom sad once, chances are he’ll do it again. That happened to me once and I trusted the guy again and man did he CRUSH my heart. And, of course, I went out with him once more and BOOM. I don’t even HAVE a heart anymore.

Answer #2

To be completely honest, this seems like a decision that your mom should be making on her own. I can understand her asking for your opinion, but the truth is, she needs to look at this situation and decide if this is something she wants to work on. No relationship is 100% perfect, so she just needs to ask herself if she’s willing to put herself out there.

That being said, how did he hurt her? Was it a huge thing? Is it something that she feels like she can’t move on from? If they’re having a lot of problems, it may be good for them to stabilize their relationship and iron things out before getting married. Marriage is a huge commitment. Entering a marriage when they’re already in a bad position would be a very bad idea.

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