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Why my girlfriend won't touch me.

I am 22 and she is 20. We have been dating for over 4 years and we had a hot and heavy relationship for the first two years. Then it started to slow down and then it went to almost not touching at all. Not just sexually but almost at all. I do everything for her and I treat her like a princess. But for the last year and a half she barely lets me kiss her. I have talked to her about countless times and she always says she doesnt know why she is like that. But she doesnt want to break up and she says she is happy. I dont know what to do. Am I stuck in a dead end relationship or will this pass? What do I do???

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Answer #1

She is starting to see you as more of a friend than a boyfriend. She is still completely happy with you, jealous/possessive over you, and wants to spend every minute with you, but the fact of the matter is that she is no longer attracted to you sexually … only emotionally. Sooner or latter she is going to leave you for another guy(not that she is going to be looking for one but one will eventually come along that is very persistent and she wont be able to say no any longer and give in). When she leaves you for this other guy she will probably tell you that you are her best friend and she still wants you in her life…but just as a friend. HA shell probably even tell you that she wants to be there for you…when shes the reason that youll need someone to be there for you!

Run! If you can manage try to remain friends, but I have a feeling that probably wouldnt work for you right?

Answer #2

This is very sad. If she won’t talk about it then I’m afraid you need to take a step back.

Otherwise it seems to me you are just being used. You have already been more than patient.

As hard as it is to accept, the worst scenario is that it’s over, but there are other people out there.

What might happen however, is that if you distance yourself a little, she might open about her feelings and you can rediscover what you originally had.

You need to act soon though.

Answer #3

some people are just not touchy feely but…I do however feel that you should talk about the real reason why bc its been my expierence that people like that are usually not interested anymore…so I think a nice long talk would be good.

Answer #4

maybe she isnt really wanting you anymore, maybe she has love 4 you but not in love with u. and it could be she is only with you because she dont want any 1 else 2 be with u.. good luck with that!

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